I had people asking me for relationship advice lately. I thought it might be fun to have a thread about it. Ask me anything about relationships. I will do my expert best to help you with my sage, powerful, deep words of wisdom.

Why is it when you ask a guy
Do I look ok
Their reply is arhh yea
Why can't they be honest and say with confidence yes you look great or no you don't because............
Are they afraid we might rip their heads off?

If a woman is too independent does that scared men away?

I can answer that one. PROBABLY!!

Same answer for that question also. But, If a man is smart enough, in my opinion, he will appreciate Your independence.

Are meant to act like we are the weaker sex?

Please. Before I start answering questions, I want to ask everyone to refrain from chiming in with your own answers to the questions. I anticipated that that this would happen. You are welcome to start your own advice thread. Thank you.

No. We're not meant to "act like" anything. We're meant to be the person we are. If a man can't handle me as I am, he can't handle me at all. Besides, we actually aren't the weaker sex, so why pretend. UH-Oh. Stepping on toes. I'm through.

THIS THREAD IS FOR QUESTIONS ONLY PLEASE.

Sorry Iam

Why?

I am going to start off with a question from Anonymous.

Q: How do you maintain a friendship with someone when you feel more for him and want him to feel more for you, but you know things won't go into the long haul, without getting hurt?

A: You find someone else who turns you on more. From my experiences, all men are replaceable. I always suffered over men I cared deeply about. As soon as I met a new, sexy, exciting man, I would forget about the last one. Go out there and socialize. The more men you meet, the healthier. At first, your heart may not be in it. But eventually, you'd be amazed how quickly the hot new man will make you forget the last one. Plenty of quality fish in the sea. Don't get hung up on the current one.

It will be painful and will take time at first but everything has a way of working out in the long run.

It will become chaotic and it's akin to hijacking a thread if everyone needs to put in their 2 cents.

I was playing with you.

If you are separated and have filed for divorce, is dating out or should you wait till the divorce is finalized?

In this case, you have answered your own question. Men love pleasing women and getting positive attention from them at all times. In terms of physical appearance, men know that women are very vain. Biologically, men look for women with a symmetrical face and wide hips because this shows the woman is healthy and can bear him healthy children. We are attracted by the visual, first impressions. The intellect and intelligence and personality follow later. For some men, sometimes not at all. Men are afraid to offend the woman by saying something asinine. The smart ones know to keep their mouth shut or praise the woman on her good looks and nice assets. Women are still judged on their looks and the women realize this point and no matter how intelligent and successful, the woman wants to be told that she looks hot by her man.

If he is a strong, confident, awesome man, a woman's independence would never scare him. Quite the opposite. He would be proud to be in the presence of such a fine, strong woman. He would show her off every chance he got and brag about her accomplishments to his friends and colleagues. A strong man never competes with his woman. Quite the opposite, he elevates her.

1, How do men really feel about being a house husband?

2, If the wife's pay is more than the husband's. Can that effect their relationship?

If we are acting weak, then that means that, in reality, we are really stronger. A man is actually not as strong as a woman mentally and emotionally and, surprisingly, even physically in some instances. Women have a higher threshold for pain than men. A man would not be able to overcome the pain of childbirth, for example. There have been cases cited where a woman gained superhuman strength and lifted cars off her children when faced with a crisis.

A man usually follows the wife within months after she dies in a long term marriage. The emotional pain of loss is too much to bear for him. A woman goes on to live for many years after the death of her husband.

A man takes years to recover from a painful breakup. He feels the pain of loss more deeply than a woman. There have been studies done on these cases.

When a man gets sick, he starts whining and acts like a little baby, trying to get attention and comfort from his woman. When a woman gets sick, she still has to take care of the household, the children, the finances, the day to day operations of her life. There is no one to mother her. The woman sucks it up.

The women have the ability to multitask. The men, not so much.

In conclusion, the women are much, much stronger than men.

Thank you Iam
I appreciate these answer I don't have that much knowledge with the opposite sex
This thread helps me to understand them better.