This is a tricky question to answer because, technically, when you are separated, you are still married until the divorce is finalized. Some might consider having relationships before your divorce is final a form of cheating. Sometimes, the couple could be on a break and then decide to get back together, further complicating any relationships which they had during their break or short separation. This is where the people dating them sometimes take huge relationship risks because there is a chance they could return to their spouses. If the couple is convinced that the divorce is their only solution and they are not on the fence, then I would go ahead and start dating others. Divorce takes years sometimes to finalize. Why shouldn't you have fun while you are waiting? This person already caused you enough heartache. Go ahead and enjoy yourself with your new sexy man or sexy woman. While you're at it, have an extra beer on me.

1. We have evolved in western nations to such a point that a man feels privileged and honored to be able to nurture his children and take care of them as a stay at home Dad. Many successful women are bringing home larger paychecks than their husbands and family dynamics have shifted. We even had films about these cultural advancements, i.e., Mr. Mom (1983) and Mrs. Doubtfire (1993).

2. Of course. But if the man is strong, confident, secure and self-assured, he will be proud of his woman and praise her to his mother, father, sister, brother, friends, colleagues and even the cats who meow and the birds that chirp outside his window.

This is a question from another anonymous member.

Q: How honest should someone continue to be about their feelings for another when the other person is not as specific or as reciprocal with what they feel?

A: I would first try to ascertain the feelings of the object of your desire. If these persons stubbornly refuse to reveal their feelings for you, then I would tell them my feelings anyway, in case that will prod them to open up about their own. Someone needs to make the first move. Be brave. More importantly, be confident. If you show your feelings in an awkward manner, the object of your desire may flee. Look natural, like telling them "I love you" is the most natural and logical thing in the world and how dare they not reciprocate? Are you mad that you don't love me too and you don't feel the same way? Get in tune with your emotions and love me now, object of my desire!!!

You're very welcome. This is a good time to reveal my credentials. I am Board certified in virtual online advice from the University of Nil.

Well, well can't even put my own two Cents in hmm...... where's the fun in that..?.. Oh. .0H I have a question..
it's a bit sensitive.. .. when a lady has a certain odor coming from her flower.. is it Polite for a gentleman to comment....Hmmmm .. how does he bring up the topic.... without sounding totally insensitive..

Well ,well should I just take a seat and sit down or take a number maybe ?service around here is kind of sucky lol

Hmmm.. puts down the magazine..
okay I'm going to run across the street and go get my haircut and a shave I'll come back later on... I would ask someone to save my place in the line... but there really isn't much of a line up

I answered you the other 5 places you posted this question, where you asked about the foul food in the fridge or smelly flower. Here is my answer again.

That's what happens when someone keeps using old, used up fridges instead of nice, brand new and barely used ones. But some 21 year old fridges can be just as used up as the vintage 35 - 45 year old fridges, depending on the vast amount of fridge users. Not everyone has a beautiful, prime, top of the line fridge like mine which smells divine and is like sunshine.

I saved a place for you, sweetie kums.

Speaking of sucky service, I am still waiting for you to answer my question on your thread since July 20, which makes it 3 whole weeks.

Still waiting on your expert answer, my lover

hmmm.. all I'm hearing is blah blah blah u,u,u but not a real answer to my question...... just saying if you're going to offer advice ... you really need to give out the advice lol oh I'm going to like this topic a lot

My question is short. So, I'll ask mini-me instead.

Obviously, you are free to get another opinion elsewhere.

Obviously, you are free to get another opinion elsewhere, lover, No1phD.

My friend whose a guy laughs at me when I ask him questions about men. I. Tell him I am trying to work them out so I have a better understanding of them and I am equipped to handle them. He laughs even louder. I felt like smacking him one. Are men that nuts you can't work them out?

Ohhh ok.. maybe someone else can answer my first question...
oh yeah I forgot that's not allowed..

Yes.

I did write get your opinion elsewhere.

Mini-Me said that the answer was a bit out of his reach. So ...

If "I am" is the shortest sentence in the English language, then is "I do" the longest sentence?

Hangs out my shingle. Back in the office.

Anyone else have a question?