albeit i'm a celibate or abstinent 100%--I love men! I just need time to recover from some trauma first. and I have the strength to admit that about me now. Yet why can't a guy be patient through that and only act as the brother in Christ I need, you know, play racquetball or go to ice hockey games, while I take this one year to get a grip? I need nurturing and patience, TLC, and if the guy cannot or will not be here for me during my recovering, not even as my brother in Christ, then it shows me they will never be there for me later. it also shows me they're into their own "needs", not thinking about me, the lady. until I recover from past trauma, I cannot be there for him as wife. so really, guys, being there for the ladies is an investment in your own future, if she has any sense.

I can be there for a woman as a brother in Christ. If you have me I will be your friend.

thats all good,,but what do you have to offer this man that you want him to do all the giving? sounds like you want him to take care of you,,and in reture you will????

to answer your question nascar, in return i'm a good sister in Christ to him too. in fact, you're sounding too worried about what the guy will be getting.. it goes both ways.

Jenontherocks clearly needs time to recover , and it is obvious she has been through quite an ordeal ! Time is an amazing healer that God has granted us ... And how ever long it takes it takes ... Someone who truly loves will wait !!!