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Edited by
Jerusalem100
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I use to be their 24-365-366. The baby daddy comes around holidays to flaunt his daughter and he had more Sayso in my own household than myself. Should I give up on talking to someone with kids. I want some of my own but until then I need to get myself one with whom brought me this far. I don't want to bring a soul into this world. Only women respond, don't want any men in this discussion.
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Edited by
Annierooroo
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Tue 08/04/15 12:45 AM
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First no one can come into your hopme and have more of a say unless you allow them.
Man up! Sorry for being harsh Your are doing this guy a favour by being a father figure to his kid. Second don't let that put you from getting to know a solo mum. Thirdly don't rush into having children. Remember they are with for a long time. Make sure you are ready for them and committed in raising them. PS there are alot of guys out there who will have excellent advice from a mans point of view |
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Are you saying you are in a relationship with a woman who has children, but her ex/the biological father comes over and makes things uneasy for you?
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Since you don't want any men in on this my son asked me to respond:
I took a look at your photos, you look like one happy man with that kid :). Would you give that up because of this issue?.. Going by your smile, I think that would be hard to do. My advise:, The biological Dad has a right to see his daughter and vise a verse. And yes, many over compensate because of inner feelings of not seeing their child enough or they feel that they failed as a father. Maybe looking at it from his perspective will help a bit. I would " take the high road" and let them have their time together and not give it a second thought. Just a " have fun" comment and a big smile. I think that the classy way to handle this. JMO Devildog's Mom |
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Since you don't want any men in on this my son asked me to respond: I took a look at your photos, you look like one happy man with that kid :). Would you give that up because of this issue?.. Going by your smile, I think that would be hard to do. My advise:, The biological Dad has a right to see his daughter and vise a verse. And yes, many over compensate because of inner feelings of not seeing their child enough or they feel that they failed as a father. Maybe looking at it from his perspective will help a bit. I would " take the high road" and let them have their time together and not give it a second thought. Just a " have fun" comment and a big smile. I think that the classy way to handle this. JMO Devildog's Mom lol, what is your Mum doing with you? Are you living at home? |
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Since you don't want any men in on this my son asked me to respond: I took a look at your photos, you look like one happy man with that kid :). Would you give that up because of this issue?.. Going by your smile, I think that would be hard to do. My advise:, The biological Dad has a right to see his daughter and vise a verse. And yes, many over compensate because of inner feelings of not seeing their child enough or they feel that they failed as a father. Maybe looking at it from his perspective will help a bit. I would " take the high road" and let them have their time together and not give it a second thought. Just a " have fun" comment and a big smile. I think that the classy way to handle this. JMO Devildog's Mom lol, what is your Mum doing with you? Are you living at home? No, she came over to borrow some coffee, ( she's in a big bingo tournament today and she couldn't sleep) I was out of coffee so I ran down to the 7-11. After she left I realized she was snooping around on my computer... must have maximize the Mingle page and responded.. God knows who else she wrote to Lol Such a nosey body ;) If anyone else gets something from my Mom.. just disregard it... o.k. |
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Since you don't want any men in on this my son asked me to respond: I took a look at your photos, you look like one happy man with that kid :). Would you give that up because of this issue?.. Going by your smile, I think that would be hard to do. My advise:, The biological Dad has a right to see his daughter and vise a verse. And yes, many over compensate because of inner feelings of not seeing their child enough or they feel that they failed as a father. Maybe looking at it from his perspective will help a bit. I would " take the high road" and let them have their time together and not give it a second thought. Just a " have fun" comment and a big smile. I think that the classy way to handle this. JMO Devildog's Mom lol, what is your Mum doing with you? Are you living at home? No, she came over to borrow some coffee, ( she's in a big bingo tournament today and she couldn't sleep) I was out of coffee so I ran down to the 7-11. After she left I realized she was snooping around on my computer... must have maximize the Mingle page and responded.. God knows who else she wrote to Lol Such a nosey body ;) If anyone else gets something from my Mom.. just disregard it... o.k. oh, well that explains it  She has probably messaged many potential daughter in laws then .....
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I use to be their 24-365-366. The baby daddy comes around holidays to flaunt his daughter and he had more Sayso in my own household than myself. Should I give up on talking to someone with kids. I want some of my own but until then I need to get myself one with whom brought me this far. I don't want to bring a soul into this world. Only women respond, don't want any men in this discussion. Having children does NOT show or prove ,men REAL men. Ask yourself WHY it bothers you? Because women with children are package deal & have men in their past & present... that is a situation that you can NOT stop or control, and don't have a say in. So of it bothers you... date only women without children & use birth control. Good luck. |
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Since you don't want any men in on this my son asked me to respond: I took a look at your photos, you look like one happy man with that kid :). Would you give that up because of this issue?.. Going by your smile, I think that would be hard to do. My advise:, The biological Dad has a right to see his daughter and vise a verse. And yes, many over compensate because of inner feelings of not seeing their child enough or they feel that they failed as a father. Maybe looking at it from his perspective will help a bit. I would " take the high road" and let them have their time together and not give it a second thought. Just a " have fun" comment and a big smile. I think that the classy way to handle this. JMO Devildog's Mom 
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But but but I want to put my 2 cents in
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Edited by
debbie1980
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Tue 08/04/15 02:13 PM
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Since you don't want any men in on this my son asked me to respond: I took a look at your photos, you look like one happy man with that kid :). Would you give that up because of this issue?.. Going by your smile, I think that would be hard to do. My advise:, The biological Dad has a right to see his daughter and vise a verse. And yes, many over compensate because of inner feelings of not seeing their child enough or they feel that they failed as a father. Maybe looking at it from his perspective will help a bit. I would " take the high road" and let them have their time together and not give it a second thought. Just a " have fun" comment and a big smile. I think that the classy way to handle this. JMO Devildog's Mom lol, what is your Mum doing with you? Are you living at home? No, she came over to borrow some coffee, ( she's in a big bingo tournament today and she couldn't sleep) I was out of coffee so I ran down to the 7-11. After she left I realized she was snooping around on my computer... must have maximize the Mingle page and responded.. God knows who else she wrote to Lol Such a nosey body ;) If anyone else gets something from my Mom.. just disregard it... o.k. oh no, i hope she didn't see that mmmmmm photo, i mean message i sent you.   
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But but but I want to put my 2 cents in
Just do it You would have good advice from a mans point of view Tell them it's in Annierooroos posting |
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Since you don't want any men in on this my son asked me to respond: I took a look at your photos, you look like one happy man with that kid :). Would you give that up because of this issue?.. Going by your smile, I think that would be hard to do. My advise:, The biological Dad has a right to see his daughter and vise a verse. And yes, many over compensate because of inner feelings of not seeing their child enough or they feel that they failed as a father. Maybe looking at it from his perspective will help a bit. I would " take the high road" and let them have their time together and not give it a second thought. Just a " have fun" comment and a big smile. I think that the classy way to handle this. JMO Devildog's Mom lol, what is your Mum doing with you? Are you living at home? No, she came over to borrow some coffee, ( she's in a big bingo tournament today and she couldn't sleep) I was out of coffee so I ran down to the 7-11. After she left I realized she was snooping around on my computer... must have maximize the Mingle page and responded.. God knows who else she wrote to Lol Such a nosey body ;) If anyone else gets something from my Mom.. just disregard it... o.k. oh no, i hope she didn't see that mmmmmm photo, i mean message i sent you.
I think she may have Deb.... she left very quickly while saying " thank God your fathers not alive"!!!!! |
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Since you don't want any men in on this my son asked me to respond: I took a look at your photos, you look like one happy man with that kid :). Would you give that up because of this issue?.. Going by your smile, I think that would be hard to do. My advise:, The biological Dad has a right to see his daughter and vise a verse. And yes, many over compensate because of inner feelings of not seeing their child enough or they feel that they failed as a father. Maybe looking at it from his perspective will help a bit. I would " take the high road" and let them have their time together and not give it a second thought. Just a " have fun" comment and a big smile. I think that the classy way to handle this. JMO Devildog's Mom lol, what is your Mum doing with you? Are you living at home? No, she came over to borrow some coffee, ( she's in a big bingo tournament today and she couldn't sleep) I was out of coffee so I ran down to the 7-11. After she left I realized she was snooping around on my computer... must have maximize the Mingle page and responded.. God knows who else she wrote to Lol Such a nosey body ;) If anyone else gets something from my Mom.. just disregard it... o.k. oh no, i hope she didn't see that mmmmmm photo, i mean message i sent you.
I think she may have Deb.... she left very quickly while saying " thank God your fathers not alive"!!!!!  thank god I sent the others to your private email and not on here. phew.   
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I don't allow anything that's why we're separated now. My heart hurts but I'll live. I'm posting trust in women. Not all and I'm not perfect who doesn't have baggage. Last and not least I'm30 years old Believe me im in no rush.
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No the bio doesn't com over I'm to aggressive for all of that...lol he just dictates how the household use be ran. Over it now. My heart hurts tho that i can't see my baby.... Thx for responding...
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Thx, didn't know i needed that until now.
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I think it would be wise to leave them to it. You don't want the kid seeing you in a bitter angry state. It never just affects the two parents involved. Unfortunately, some parents put fighting before the child they both brought up. I think it's really petty. Someone think about how the child feels for once.
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