why some old men like to date a 22 years old lady? like 61 yrs old to a 19 yrs old below?

Because pretty one. Most of the women our age have spent a lot of their time trying to compete and be equal to the men and in their professions. I believe they have lost a lot of their femininity and are not as appealing, attractive, and desirable. Whereas a very sweet young woman like you has many things going for her. Inexperience, energy, beautiful looks and shape. More open to try new things and still wants to have fun.
And don't write off all us older guys, as we can bring experience, patience, motivation to please, generosity, and others.
I found out somewhat later in life that I had it all wrong. Most guys only think about their own pleasure and satisfaction and quickly get oof and then lose interest. I have found, again thru experience, to puit the woman first in both pleasing her and satisfying her as many times as you can before involving the lower parts. Men often *** quickly during intimacy and in this way, both are pleased, happy, satisfied, and more likely to last longer in a relationship. Please I have found that women really appreciate this and it has always been returned many times over for just taking the time to put her happiness before yours.

I hope this helped and was not too long winded. If you would like to chat more. Drop me a line.

Brad

Brad is correct as women should go first. Also the average woman needs 16 minutes of direct clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm whereas men around nine minutes . Women should be served first as men most often climax quickly and this does his partner little orgasmic benefit...

It is called perversion

easy, because all these older men interested are only after the same thing sex, imo the older men into a woman that is less then half their age are the same ones who have never matured enough to have a meaning relationship beyond the physical.

if all you are wanting is a fling and a big O, then honestly they may be fun for you.


but if you want a relationship that can progress beyond the physical find someone closer to your own age...at least within the same decade

Here is ONE option ( but the OP, is referring to men over 40 & much, much younger women. )

http://www.yourtango.com/experts/carmelia-ray/older-men-dating-younger-women-whats-it-all-about/

WHY do older dudes like 'em young?
So many ladies ask me what is up with older men dating younger women.

There is actually an evolutionary psychological theory surrounding this common "phenomenon". There have been many studies conducted exploring the reasons behind older men dating younger woman. One of them published in the journal Evolutionary Psychology, looked at 400 romantic ads in the Swedish newspapers Göteborgs-Posten and Aftonbladet and on the websites Spraydate and Match.com.

Men in all categories prefer younger partners. Of a total of 97 men who mentioned age in their ads, only three were looking for an older partner — among men aged 40 to 59, only one out of 67.

Women I've interviewed between the ages of 40 and 70 largely believe men their age are not interested in dating someone their own age. Studies show older men prefer youth and beauty first for mate selection and women choose men who offer resources and stability. It's no surprise there are a number of websites emerging and profiting from these "mutually benefiting" relationships. The "successful older man" seeking "young attractive female" is common place. Let's reveal a few of the reasons behind older men dating younger women.

1. He's Having A Mid-Life Crisis

Well this is an easy explanation. Men, who feel they've been "tied down" for far too long or what he considers a marriage of obligation, feel as if he's been cheated of his youth and his "fun years." It's as if he seeks a younger woman to replace his older model (wife) and convince himself somehow that dating a younger woman will bring back his youthfulness and give him a second chance to have fun again.

A gentleman dating a younger woman is not like a time machine. This is about the same time he spends his money more freely on extravagant man toys, replaces his wardrobe, invests in hair club for men and maybe hires a personal trainer. Some men date younger woman to prove to themselves they haven't lost his touch.

2. He Wants Kids

I've encountered many men over 40 who admit to wanting more kids — regardless of the fact that they might've already raised a few. They believe that dating a younger woman, in this case, is a requirement (or excuse) to decrease the odds of any birth defects or health risks.

If an older man hasn't had the chance to father a child, he seeks a younger woman for this specific purpose. This seems more like a fostering plan for some, but some men want to carry on their legacy with children of their own. Men have biological clocks, too, if you didn't already know. They assume older women can't safely have children.

3. He Assumes All Women His Age Are Like His Ex

As the saying goes, "Once burnt, twice shy." Some men have this ridiculous belief women their own age are all the same. I'll share an example. If he's had a bad experience with his partner going through menopause, frankly it scares the crap out of him to think about having to go through it all over again with someone new.

Menopause seems to be the cause of many failed marriages (or at least that's what some men I've talked with blame it on). If he's ever been online dating or on a few sour blind dates with a woman who's still bitter about her breakup, he suddenly thinks they're ALL like that.

Younger women, who have never been in a serious relationship or "tainted" by a bad marriage, seem like a great option for an older man seeking a stress and drama-free relationship. Unfortunately for him, his assumptions about dating a younger woman being "hassle-free" may be very, very wrong. Most relationships require work and cooperation to make them successful.

Thankfully not all older men seek younger women for a relationship. When you consider what makes a successful long-term, healthy relationship last, age is just one consideration in a number of relationship factors to consider.
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True
She did ask for perverts not to message her. She wanted a real NICE guy.

If they are that age, they probably want to hold onto
their fading youth, so I would guess it is insecurity.

They need the eye candy to validate themselves.
They no doubt will go on and on about sex.
To prove their prowess.

There are those rare ones that find and reciprocate
real love...but I bet they spend a lot of mall time
with their chickies.

easier to train...

Most older women look hideous after middle age and men are visual creatures. No one is brave enough to admit the ugly truth, no pun. I know men who complain about this issue.

I agree men are visual creatures because they need to be physically attracted to a woman to perform.

but not to worry when peeps loose their looks, men with beer goggles will think you look beautiful lmao

ill get my bloke drunk 24/7 when I loose my looks, thanks **** for beer goggles lmao

Insecurity.


Makes logical sense. The closer men get to death, the more insecure they become. They begin grasping at straws to restore their days of youth--to hide the inevitable. And what better way but to fancy a lady in her prime? Could be as much as 30 or 40 years younger.

I think it's absurd for a man to even consider dating someone that much younger, but who am I?

Lots of reasons.
They're covered ad nauseam all over the internet.

Easier to just say some people prefer puppies to adopting from the pound.

They must be looking for a dog, then...

Sounds to me like women need to get their *** in gear.. Men ain't got all day..

some are... the country hicks are a different breed...

like that'll happen anytime soon...

no idea
i am 44
my normal date range is 30-50 <shrug>