Hey there I am looking for a good friend needing a shoulder to lean on, seems nowadays you can never find a good friend, and the reason I say that is because my best friend of 12 years has stopped talking to me because of a man that has moved into her basement a man i was dating four serveral months I talked her and her husband into letting him and I stay there and I had lost my D.L's and had to move out of there now get this when I was there my friends husband would ignore the sh*t out of her and talk with me and she would follow by boyfriend around at the time and now that me and him broke up and i know longer live there I have not heard from her and don't know why I tried calling her but when we talk the friendship connection doesn't seem to be there are I don't know what to do. should I try and work the problem out or give up on the friendship?

I think you should just come straight out and ask your friend what has happened. Maybe she has been told something about you that's not true and it is bothering her. Just talk to her and make her talk to you. Good luck!

try and work things out because it seems right now you guys aren't really friends so it's not like you can ruin much anymore. hope things work out

be straight up .. it's always the best