I was brutally honest in my profile. Please give me the same respect. Thanks all!

Great looking face, and I love straight hair so I think you are looking for sure

Great looking face, and I love straight hair so I think you are looking for sure

Thank you! Would you believe me if I told you my hair is naturally kinky curly? ;)

Hi Congratulations on your first posting in Mingle.

Ok I am going to be brutally honest back..
I read all the things you don't want I think you should put as much effort into what you do want on the same profile.

From what I have observed and experienced out here, If they're a catfish or scammer etc...They aren't going to care if you warn them on your profile or not.

So maybe just put what you are looking for and when your inbox fills up weed out what you don't want, just a thought.

Best wishes in your search

Thank you for the advice! I'll use that.

Sounds angry and like you are painting a target on your back because saying some one already has gotten over on you very clearly.

Using your least flattering photo for a lead shot.

I would refocus on telling the good things you offer like being responsible, employed, ect. and some of your less life or death interests and start with like not "ya wanna fight".

Thank you PacificStar. I very much appreciate it!

I love kinky

I love kinky

you look terrific. Why are you still a member. By now you should have so many dates lined up, you would be booked for the next several years
ed

Haha! Thanks Ed, but it's very hard to find someone real nowadays. I took a year off of online dating because of all of the scammers, and it has gotten so much worse! I'm really picky...I have to be from the 12 year marriage I finally escaped from. It's finally time to put my needs ahead of his! Call me old fashioned I guess.