Every man needs to know how to respect and treat the special woman he is seeking...so what is your theory on the subject...I'm sure the ladies are interested in your responses....bonus points are granted and you will be noticed! Be Honest!

Depends on what type of person she is, what I know about her, and how she treats me?

Otherwise, until I have more specific information, I treat her normally, like any other person I meet and interact with face to face?


To me that just reads like "what is your dating facade? What role do you adopt, what behavior do you exhibit, regardless of who you are dating, because your focus is on communicating and getting her to believe you think that she's special and you respect her, putting her on a pedestal rather than treating her like a normal person?"

In my experience people are off put by formal dating facades.
The ones that really enjoy being put on a pedestal tend to love it, and then go to the forums or to friends and complain when after a couple weeks or months the facade comes down, pulling her down from the pedestal, and reality seeps in.

Well, I would try to find out what she expected from the relationship and then if I wanted to pursue it I would act accordingly. For example, she might want to go out and do stuff together a lot, or she might not.

I treat them how they want to be treated but the problem is that they often can't make their mind up what that is, or they want just whatever suits them at any particular time. If they say to me that they don't want anything serious, or act like they don't then I would be a mug to treat them as well and to go to the same effort to make them feel as special as someone that really wanted to be with me and was making me feel "special".

It can be a problem when you're too nice and people walk all over you and if someone is treating you badly you really should get out of that relationship but I suppose what tends to happen is that after the honeymoon period is over you're going to find out how nice they really are, or how easy to get on with and it really is about getting to know each other and how compatible you are.

For example, she might have a sarcastic sense of humour and then I might start being sarcastic back to her and she should be able to take it if she's dishing it out and that sort of thing can be in good humour and not abusive but someone else might not apreciate sarcasm. You don't really know how a relationship's going to develop anyway. I wouldn't say in response to this thread that I would play practical jokes on my lady but I could conceivably find myself in a relationship where we liked to play practical jokes on each other.

So ... how would you?

I'd also want to be sure it's the man's true nature, not some polished veneer he's slapped on to reel me in, only to reveal an a-hole once he's conquered me

Gee, how could that happen? Aren't all men honest and straightforward? .... Although I did hear a story once about a guy who just wanted ....

Everyone needs to know how to treat and respect everyone they deal with.

If you are just doing so with the people you want to have sex with, that's not romance, that's playing fake white knight to try to get laid.

I would treat my lady as my best of friends with respect and kindness. I would share all that I have with her. I am a romantic and believe in pampering her with a foot massage after a hard days work...( my turn a massage of my shoulders and back)Make her dinner wash up while she takes a hot bubble bath....then cuddle and talk about what happened during our day and take it from there...


Brought up in a household of three sisters I learned early to raise the toilet seat and wipe it off! haha

well good luck getting that on a dating site

you should treat your lady like a queen, she should treat you like a king and you should both treat others like prince and princesses. heard that a long time ago.

I would treat her well. As good as I possibly can xoxo. Day in and day out

The way I like to be treated myself.

It's not hard is it.

One thing I know for sure,women are a lot smarter then most men think,you can have the world if in most cases men
Could just do some of the smallest things that spikes
Her interest,but many times we make the mistake and change,and stop doing the the things that once mad not only her happy,but both,as men we seem to make the saying it's getting old,and it's not
You stop thinking about new and creative ways to keep the spark,
And stop communicating,and that's the worst thing you can do to a women,because if you not talking,she will find someone who will,one thing a women will always talk to another women, and when you deserve the praise,she will lift you, but when you trash her,all hello will break loose,and you will be the one asking her to go to dinner, and trying to buy flowers on your lunch break,and she will not be available.

Bullseye.
Although I will go the extra mile for my gal.
Because she deserves it.

I usually give them a little pat on the aZz.. tell them on the way up to the bedroom.. grab me a beer will yA..

I'm the same jackhole on the first day you meet me as the last day you see me.