You will see it in their eyes,it is in the warmth you see, and in their smile. You cant fake that.

True, true..

Rich businessmen spend a lot on their kept women...they even gift them flats to live with huge donations every month. This doesn't measure love. If you have enough money, you can buy sex. Paying for hospital charges also doesn't mean love.

If a man himself spends nights in the hospital in the corridor or the same room looking after her with no expectations other than her recovery, I guess you can say he loves her.

you will know it through there life term together

yes you get it

Exactly dear

when your voice is the last thing he wants to hear at night
when you are the first thing he thinks of when he wakes up
when he is not supposed to take phone calls at work
but texts you anytime he has a break just to see how your day is going
when your humor makes him bust out laughing
when you have a bad day and he listens..really listens to you
and does not always try to fix it or give you advice
when he is your friend as well as your lover

That sounds just like Daddy.

.....was laughing at Blondy's comment

Interesting tidbit: jealousy could be considered a disease.

You know you are loved when...

The person cares that you are safe. They make the little efforts to remove foreseeable dangers like batteries in your flash light, checking your car, or telling you something that might complicate your safety such as a "black sheep" friend or family member. They want you to have your education, job skills, car and life insurance; good tools to work with. Warm clothing.

The person cares you secure even if they are not there. They ask a friend or neighbor to check on you when they have to be away. They don't over extend themselves financially so they can not cope with unforeseen problems. They buy you a cell phone or a house alarm. They send you motes or flowers to reassure you that they care when they are not around to benefit.

The person cares that you are pursing not just your mutual dreams but also your own dreams. The budget is not just about me and us but you sometimes.

They make the effort to learn your likes and dislikes. And kindly tell you their own.

When your comfort essentials are suddenly on their essentials list and vice versa. .

Home is when you are there even if it is in a cardboard box under a bridge or under the blanket with them at the super bowl or sleeping in the chair in the ICU waiting room.

When your kids are their kids; when even if they really didn't want kids that you have theirs is still the best news they ever got.

When they light up just because they see you walk in the room; even if you are dirty, stinky, tired, crying, or mad as a hornet.

When they will agree to disagree because unity is more important than having things their way.

When you are old, tired, and feeble you are still theirs and the vows still count.

When something really good happens you are the first person they want to share it with or you want to tell them first.

Gaining, having, keeping, and giving them trust is top of your behavior check list.

When their family; love them or hate them, are your family.

When your most treasured possession becomes second to them but they respect it like it is theirs .

Work and money are love made visable not just something you do.

You pray for each other, wish for each other, and dream for each other.

usually when you wake up in the morning and your both wiggling your toes at the exact same rate without realizing it or doing it intentionally... LoL

when I open one eye just slightly ..well in bed and see them hovering over my face with a pillow... and they then put the pillow down and go back to sleep then I know lol

When he brings lunch to your work place and stays with you to eat
When he talks to you after work knowing that he has used all his words but he puts on his listening face and lets you talk.
He gives up his live rugby to be with you.