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Topic: would you have...
mom333's photo
Mon 07/06/15 01:38 PM
an arranged marriage?

blah..blah..'s photo
Mon 07/06/15 01:56 PM
no,
but why would you want to?

Annierooroo's photo
Mon 07/06/15 01:59 PM
No way
If that was the only way I would stay single. No one tells me. Who I will marry.

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Mon 07/06/15 02:06 PM
No way, Never ever.. its my choice.

mom333's photo
Mon 07/06/15 02:23 PM
there is a new show on UK TV about it, there are actually services dedicated to scientifically picking your perfect match. lol

blah..blah..'s photo
Mon 07/06/15 03:17 PM
that doesn't surprise me RE:UK shows!

it's all absolute rubbish here!

mom333's photo
Mon 07/06/15 03:26 PM
Edited by mom333 on Mon 07/06/15 03:28 PM

that doesn't surprise me RE:UK shows!

it's all absolute rubbish here!
your not wrong love. At least if things get to late in the day ican sign up laugh

ILJazz's photo
Mon 07/06/15 03:27 PM

No, I don't believe in it.:smile:

blah..blah..'s photo
Mon 07/06/15 03:48 PM


that doesn't surprise me RE:UK shows!

it's all absolute rubbish here!
your not wrong love. At least if things get to late in the day ican sign up laugh

just watch repeats of classic 80's comedy, probably the only entertainment on British TV these days :)

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Mon 07/06/15 04:17 PM
would you have... an arranged marriage?

Maybe.

Who was it arranged by? My family? People I trust and love? Some sort of state organization? Or random strangers from an internet dating forum?

Why was it arranged? For my benefit, or for someone else?

Do I have any kind of veto power?

Do I get any kind of interaction with the person beforehand?


To me there is a huge difference between "you exist for the family, your only purpose is to do what we say, marry whom we say, have grandkids and heirs, it's for your own good because we say so," and, "we know it's hard, you are busy, we have the free time, we have connections and we're talking to our friends about your love life anyway, and they also have family going through the same thing as you, so we're just trying to help you out, no different than getting you some job interviews, you can say no, but if you say yes they are expecting to just get married and get on with it."

Rock's photo
Mon 07/06/15 05:28 PM
How much would the annual salary be, for tolerating the situation?

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Mon 07/06/15 05:57 PM
What about the show "Married at First Sight" (or whatever it's called.) Entertaining to watch, not to live.

SitkaRains's photo
Mon 07/06/15 06:32 PM

What about the show "Married at First Sight" (or whatever it's called.) Entertaining to watch, not to live.
That was the name I was thinking about earlier..that is what it is called here in the states..

Would I do it Nope not now not ever...

Goofball73's photo
Mon 07/06/15 06:56 PM
If arranged with Jennifer Anniston? Oh hell yeah! :thumbsup:

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Mon 07/06/15 06:57 PM
One of the reasons I was willing to grow up and old, was specifically, and I do mean SPECIFICALLY, so that I wouldn't have to do stuff like that, where someone else saddles me with obligations.

I have enough problems dealing with what that jerk I used to be last week, saddled me with.

Empty the garbage???!!!?:? AGAIN??!?!!?!?!??! You'd think it would stay emptied, after all this time and repetition. Aich.

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Tue 07/07/15 02:20 AM
Maybe if it was arranged by friends I've known for years, as they know what kind of men I go for, but otherwise no. I'd hate to think I'd been forced into being with anyone I felt nothing for. It would be pointless. All for nothing. I have a feeling I WAS set up, before, because once I told two people that I'm better off staying away from said person, they both looked at each other in a really disgruntled way. It was hilarious. We want who we want.

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Tue 07/07/15 02:52 AM

an arranged marriage?


sure...as long as i wasn't forced into it in any way...

TMommy's photo
Tue 07/07/15 04:27 AM
Haaahaaa...hell nospock

Kaustuv1's photo
Tue 07/07/15 04:32 AM
I wouldn't have a problem with 'that' as long as the true meaning of the term 'MARRIAGE' stood clear as crystal to 'both' of us!:smile:

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Tue 07/07/15 05:19 AM
no, never.

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