I don't know why but it's really attractive when men have kids or wanna have kids

..ohhh... did I mention I have kids..wink wink..lol...jk.. it may be attractive.... but it makes.. doing things on the drop of a hat.. somewhat difficult...

I prefer that he had no children yet, like me. We will create our own family. And if his children live at home, they will be sent to boarding school or military school.

I prefer he has children
and that he has a close relationship with them that involves more than just sending a birthday card once a year

This just makes so angry... My kids had to grow up with out a dad no fault of his or theirs. So when I see this I am so saddened...



Now on topic.
I haven't given it much thought that if a man has children or if he wants to have children. I think there are to many other things that come into play. If a man that I was interested in had children then it would be really a critical on how he treated them and his EX.. I don't mean he has to suck up but with respect since she is the mother of his children at least be polite.

I find it to be situational. So many factors to consider - custody, joint custody, visitation, number of children, ages, relationship with ex spouse/partner, family drama....

I wouldn't rule out whether they do or don't have children. I do know I don't want to get dragged into a drama.

Really?
I knew a guy that was living in a hotel with his kids.
That was all he could afford day to day.
He had 4 kids from 3 different women, and had just gotten another one night stand girl pregnant.

If you want, I can probably find his number.

wicked step mother ?,,,lol,,JK

I didn't know that male Humans were capable of giving birth.
Back on planet Melmac, the female Melmacians did that sort of thing.



You Humans never cease to confuse me.

Ostensibly. The reality is children adore me. I used to work as a Day Camp counselor in my early years.

I've seen that some women that have kids don't really like a man that has his own kids, cause they feel it may take something away from her kids.. Selfish aholes.

I have no problem agreeing with that. I also find it nice, if I see a man with a dog [any other pet] :)