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Topic: LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE ?????
PREETAM666 Joined Sun 06/28/15 Posts: 24	Sun 06/28/15 12:35 PM
What you prefer ????

Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Sun 06/28/15 12:42 PM
Marriage but in no hurry to get there

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sun 06/28/15 12:43 PM
both are fairly equal in my eyes the only difference being in government involvement at this point, I am on the wall about whether I am required as a christian to involve the government as I feel they have willingly disregarded The Lords design and definition of marriage,,, I am at a point to consider if a vow(like pastors take or nuns or priests, where government involvement has nothing to do with it), that is sincere between two partners and God and at least two witnesses will suffice,

joethebricky Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 12740	Sun 06/28/15 12:49 PM
both are fairly equal in my eyes the only difference being in government involvement at this point, I am on the wall about whether I am required as a christian to involve the government as I feel they have willingly disregarded The Lords design and definition of marriage,,, I am at a point to consider if a vow(like pastors take or nuns or priests, where government involvement has nothing to do with it), that is sincere between two partners and God and at least two witnesses will suffice, You would have to get Elvis involved as well. What could be more romantic than getting hitched in the Elvis Chapel, Las Vegas

SassyEuro2 Joined Wed 04/29/15 Posts: 11102	Sun 06/28/15 12:51 PM
I see you are 20 & Hindu in India. So I can't help but wonder if this is a religious question or not ? But my response is ,marriage no matter if it is religions,cultural or generational question. Simply because women have nothing to really gain , & no rights or legal protection & often not even property. And any children born are of course born out of wedlock. Nd may not have rights either.

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Sun 06/28/15 12:56 PM
What you prefer ???? i've never been married but been in live in relationships which felt like a marriage & it was amazing...as i look back i feel i should have married her the countless no. of times she asked me to but never got the right time even tho i wanted it as bad

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sun 06/28/15 01:00 PM
both are fairly equal in my eyes the only difference being in government involvement at this point, I am on the wall about whether I am required as a christian to involve the government as I feel they have willingly disregarded The Lords design and definition of marriage,,, I am at a point to consider if a vow(like pastors take or nuns or priests, where government involvement has nothing to do with it), that is sincere between two partners and God and at least two witnesses will suffice, You would have to get Elvis involved as well. What could be more romantic than getting hitched in the Elvis Chapel, Las Vegas lol, I will skip Elvis as well,,,

mom333 Joined Sun 06/15/14 Posts: 1238	Mon 06/29/15 12:19 PM
Same sex or straight either one should live together first. I think it's best to get the leveling right before you tie the knot. At least by the time your married you have got used to him leaving his socks everywhere and he has got used to you needing a good cry and lots of chocolates once a month lol. It's best to know if you can actually live together first i think but that's just my opinion.

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Mon 06/29/15 01:04 PM
Highly doubt I will walk down aisle again

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Mon 06/29/15 01:44 PM
You couldn't care less but there are a lot of benefits that you lose as an individual and as a family unit if you don't get the official marriage license.

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Mon 06/29/15 05:21 PM
Oh this one is tough, I swore for years I would never ever get married again. Now well sigh probably I would do it again when the timing was right

panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Mon 06/29/15 05:51 PM
Working on that, Miss Rains. Workin on it.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Mon 06/29/15 05:54 PM
The tax breaks are awesome for married couples.

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Mon 06/29/15 06:03 PM
Working on that, Miss Rains. Workin on it. Yes I know that Mr. Pancho I know... he tax breaks are awesome for married couples. hmmm I wonder if that works in Canada also Goof?? I am sure Pancho will know..

panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Mon 06/29/15 06:06 PM
Working on that, Miss Rains. Workin on it. Yes I know that Mr. Pancho I know... he tax breaks are awesome for married couples. hmmm I wonder if that works in Canada also Goof?? I am sure Pancho will know.. Yup yup. But wouldn't change my mind if not.

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Mon 06/29/15 06:13 PM
Working on that, Miss Rains. Workin on it. Yes I know that Mr. Pancho I know... he tax breaks are awesome for married couples. hmmm I wonder if that works in Canada also Goof?? I am sure Pancho will know.. Yup yup. But wouldn't change my mind if not. All righty then

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Tue 06/30/15 04:50 PM
You couldn't care less but there are a lot of benefits that you lose as an individual and as a family unit if you don't get the official marriage license. not at my stage, cant have any more kids . Im not looking for any special PERKS from a relationship and there are contracts for just about any issue I may be concerned about

SassyEuro2 Joined Wed 04/29/15 Posts: 11102	Tue 06/30/15 05:27 PM
You couldn't care less but there are a lot of benefits that you lose as an individual and as a family unit if you don't get the official marriage license. not at my stage, cant have any more kids . Im not looking for any special PERKS from a relationship and there are contracts for just about any issue I may be concerned about https://willicklawgroup.com/palimonycohabitation/