I wouldn't say I'm comfortable, but I am learning to become more excepting of being unhappy.

I have been alone for most of my life, not because I wanted to be but because that's just the way things seemed to work out. I'm an introvert and I went so far out of my comfort zone to change my circumstance that for a short time I became someone completely different. Not liking who I was becoming and unable to go back, now I just do my best to make it through each day. My beliefs prevent my from ending my life and all I look forward to is the day I won't have to wake up any more.

I don't think it's far to end up dragging someone else through this type of existence so all I look for is friends that could help to make the days a little more bearable. Can't seem to find even that much so like I said I'm becoming more excepting of spending the rest of my life alone.

I here ya,,happy with being comfortable,,,just doing me for now..,

I'm not misrible at all. I do know some people who are and I really pity them. They are such a drag to even be around.

Life is too short to go thru it in that manner.

I would never describe myself as comfortably miserable whether I was single or not...

Being miserable is a choice, I refuse to engage in. I don't gauge my comfort level on another person I gauge that on myself.

I believe having a relationship is a wonderful thing and yet if I ended up single again I would grieve and I would heal but I would never allow myself to be miserably comfortable or comfortably miserable.

nope not miserable at all

I see the feelings are mixed here.

Yes I would, but for reason's other than "not" taking stock in new opportunities. Rather opportunities see me & ignore me, some people think invisibility is a "superpower" it's a curse...

cud u b my frnd?

yahooo

comfortably miserable or miserable comfortable ...


any other choices op all depends on the day ...

well find myself, in that situation,but can't change it yet.

Uh huh.yes.

I'm comfortable with other people's misery.

Im comfortably keep on doing and tolerating the wrong things and its not making me miserable.

Interesting topic. I too see the same men on different websites to the point that I just cancel my subscription and leave. I can leave and come back years later and the same people are there.

I love how this question is written.

I see some Irish Logic in it.

I'm so happy I could barf !

I would say that I am comfortably miserable. I have tried many different things and talk to many different kinds of man. I still end up with the same result. Maybe it is me. I got married young. Divorced 5 years later. I've tried to do it alone and find myself use to the idea that there just might not be the person out there for me that I am looking for. I tend to look for someone that is Kid friendly because of my children, but they turn out to be more interested in being a child themselves. I've dated slightly younger and up to ten years older than myself and it seems like none of them can handle the pressure of a single woman with a child. Is there something that I'm missing? any advice?