Supposed to be partnership right?
Not competition
not power struggle
not about putting someone else down or holding someone else down in order to feel somehow in control or superior
selfish/self centered/self serving
egotistical jack azz
No compassion
no empathy
Know what I walked away from
know what I will not tolerate

well said

I think what happens is that men are by nature very competitive (more so than women much of the time). Some men have a real problem channeling that productively. I have had men tell me that it is impossible for them to have friends at work because of competition

not that women are not competitive, we can be. By nature tho, men tend to be more so. And they have to deal with learning to relate to women on another platform.

That is called maturation ... lol

Ironically, half the reason we're all single is that somebody isn't "settling" for us.


Go figure.

we're all just a stubborn lot I guess

I am fussy, but i can also adjust.

I would settle for someone whom i can get along with and can get along with me.

A big no no is abuse in any form.

Would I settle? NO WAY . For one thing I deserve better than that but also the person I would be with has to feel like they are getting the real deal. You can't fake love and if you settle for someone for the wrong reasons then you are really ripping them off. I am for from the perfect person but I am not that kind of low life. Everyone deserves to be wanted not just "settled for .

Flaws I am NOT going to go for is pretty basically someone who treats me or others like dirt. If they are selfish to the extream I could not handle that. Pretty much the stuff most people would not put up with.

Be somebody's first choice

Not last or better than nothing

My first choice doesn't want me so I gotta go with second best!


I'm kidding but that is the reality of things.

<~~~~~~~~ Better than nothing!



The grim truth is that NOTHING has proven itself to be the better choice than choosing me!

RF ya know what ya said about self-depreciating comments?cut dat bullsheet out!
ya ya jokes and smiles
hard harsh reality
most of us have come face to face with is that this person who was supposed to love/cherish you
above all others for wjatever reasons
did not do it

You name to yourself
on paper if you gotta
ten good qualities about yourself
stare at dat mutha f-cker til it becomes a mantra and you know it
by heart

Good Quality #01:
Good Quality #02:
Good Quality #03:
Good Quality #04:
Good Quality #05:
Good Quality #06:
Good Quality #07:
Good Quality #08:
Good Quality #09:
Good Quality #10:


I got nothin'!

Can you help a feller out? I ain't never been no good at homework.

I don't reckon I'm fussy.

I got three basic requirements:

A pulse

Born female

Distinct absence of a rectal stick


You got those three attributes and we'd have some talkin' to do....provided you'll "settle" for a feller like me.

Kind,considerate,witty,intelligent
pretty dark eyes and fantastic beard

I just want to know if chicks look at men's feet. You know that old saying....if he has big feet then he has a big pee pee. Anyways, if the feet are small but he has all those other qualities she likes....will she settle for the small pee pee?

Well if your first choice doesn't want you then change your first choice to someone worth wanting. Isn't anyone on this earth worth wanting if they don't want me.

you know what big feet means? BIG SHOES!

Which will consume more of YOUR closet space.

Now THAT could be a problem, lol

I don't plan on settling for less than what I deserve.....I am a great catch