Hi all

As a bloke looking for a woman , it seems to me however, there are either: a lot of scammers/fake people on these sites, whom, it must be said, just want your private details, for suspicious reasons or; people that are just wanting to play games with you, lead you on, but although they talk as though they want a relationship, they're not wanting or willing to actually meet, even just for a coffee.

I agree that in Cambridgeshire, it's difficult, due to the majority of it being rural, and lacking in public transport or distances to travel. This means extra time for travel and some cost. It is very unlikely that one will meet someone from here, whom just lives around the corner. As with every relationship and in deed job, there has to be give and take, and people may have to move to be together. But surely this may add to the excitement and adventure in making a new life together. Near or far however, all relationships, must start with a first step, and as with dancing, a responsive step, that corresponds and contributes to the first. But who on here, is willing to take these steps?

When it comes to Birmingham and the reason I mention it is, I love the City. I like to visit, but as with anywhere and anyone else, who actually wants to meet up??? We spend so much time searching, and typing messages, yet no one wants to spend that time more productively, in actually meeting in person and so, maybe sharing a special moment or two, a smile, an expression, an observation of life passing but, but NOT, passing us by!

So, who today, or this forthcoming weekend, is going to meet someone new???