Hi everyone,

Always interesting to hear other peoples opinions on this one, what are your turn offs on a first date?

Oh man. Where do I begin? When she opens my car door? Like I really needed that. I have two functional hands you know. Or....or. When she brings me flowers on the first date. Oh yeah....like that will really get you laid. Or how about her trying to order for me. Excuse me....you don't know me THAT well yet. Plus....I have a fully functional voice. I could go on and on and on......

Too funny Goof. I needed a laugh.

A sudden seeming twenty degree drop in ambient temperatures upon first looking at me is fairly off-putting.

The pits....they hurt my teeth when I accidentally bite into them.

Seriously, I don't dig when I feel like I'm on a job interview or being interrogated.

Lighten up, relax, and enjoy.

We ain't gotta know each other inside and out on the first date!

UGH, "dinner dates" for the first date! People act like they ain't never et (eaten, if you's a city slicker) a meal before. Besides, how long has it been since eating out was a big deal?

Plus, sometimes food makes you feel sick or have to poop...and who wants to do that on a first date? NOBODY!

People who require me to "entertain" them. They better entertain me right back cause this ain't a paying gig. I can sit in my back yard and talk to a stump all night. Gimme something to work with.

Expecting an elaborate or spectacular event...I will be doing something I do on an ordinary basis and am inviting you to join me. If you invite me somewhere, my expectation is the same.

Besides, that's the problem with many relationships. People get all caught up in the fantastic excitement of going to extravagant lengths to impress one another, then ordinary daily life sets in and *POOF* they realize they don't really like the other person...it was all the diversions they loved.

Hugs at the end of the first date. Nope. A simple hand shake is good. Even a pat on the shoulder. I only hug people I share some intimacy with.

Lunch dates are easier and a bit more casual then maybe walk in park and talk and see how it goes

though tell ya truth if I got handshake or pat on back
probably gonna assume his boat floats in opposite direction

If she cant bait her own hook, Im out.....


What? Fishin IS a date in my book

Well what turn me off in general date wise. I had this happen on first date. The dude kiss me. I felt liked I was a kissing fish or dog. But really turn me off the inability to a do proper kiss. Another thing thing come on too strong? I mean really pulling into your lap is sure way to what is word certainly rethink hmm maybe you are coming off too strong. And another thing if they do not liked animals or same interest as myself otherwise forget dating

When I see food being chewed by a date.... Don't get me wrong, I like seafood, but even I have standards, which is hard to believe considering it's been 2 years since I've even been on a date....

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