Just give your response what you feel

NO you should never msg anyone on a dating site,,geezzz really dude,are you that boared,,you have to trust untill thay give you a reason not to,,,easy peesy,

Try to be very cautious when speaking to someone for the first time.. you can trust what they say, but keep an open mind. Its very hard to judge a persons character while chatting online. Good luck

I wouldn't trust any stranger.. on line or off line

I wouldn't be rattling off my name and social. Common sense.

Not personally.

Others might be able to.

I mean I read how people fall for online scams all the time, even though they seem obvious.

Those people seem able to trust strangers from the internet.

But my answer to the question of "can you" is no.

I can't.


But just because I don't trust them, it doesn't automatically mean I distrust them, as though I simply assume their motives are focused on trying to do me harm.

Not trusting someone doesn't mean they are automatically looked upon with suspicion.

I would be nice but I would not trust anyone until I am more familiar with them.

NO WAY, not after being on here.

Well, this is the problem. You're supposed to show an interest but if you ask questions they tend to be evasive, if they reply at all. If you just talk about yourself it can come across as if you're only interested in doing that. Most of these conversations end up being boring and go nowhere.

Experience has taught me not to just believe things that women tell me on dating sites. It's not so much the personal information but many will lead you on with promises about meeting up and if you get emotionally invested at all with someone that's just on the internet you are quite possibly letting yourself in for a lot of upset and disappointment over someone that you never even met and never will. As for the "genuine" people that are really interested in dating, you won't get their full story in any number of emails and won't find out what skeletons they have in their closets until you've got to know them in person.

In conclusion, I don't waste my time writing to people that live too far away anyway and if it's someone that could make a date I don't really have the patience to exchange a lot of emails when it's usually me that has to do all of the talking and "trusting", while they do the judging until they maybe eventually make up their minds. Others may disagree with me about that and say that I'm just looking for "quick hookups" but the fact of the matter is that if it isn't going well in the first few messages it's unlikely to lead anywhere and if they are delaying meeting you after a reasonable amount of time spent chatting online it's because they're not that interested, or there's some reason why they're putting the date off, such as there being someone else they're more interested in or actually dating, or personal problems that mean that they're really not in a position to get involved in a romantic relationship with you anyway.

NO

I would NEVER trust women like Sassy, Annie, or Blondie because I KNOW once they got a little personal information out of me they'd just wind up STEALING my poor lil ol heart!

Hello , oh great adorable one ....!
Been looking for you.
* stalk stalk, stalking.... Hhhaaaa*

Is that why I keep finding celery in my mailbox? You're stalking....me? That's just so......... flattering!

Speaking of celery.... Do you want to make a salad ?

Thank you !....
... as long as no celery or other vegetation is harmed in the process.

Do you think they'll lettuce?


Strangers are friends we haven't met yet...or been abducted by...

How long does it take the "Stockholm Syndrome" to start kicking in?

No! But Will give him/her a chance to be a good friend.

Never to do dat unless i get to knw him deeply well

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