Is a pure affair only illusion to people because in this modern society, at the end of every relationship not a single soul seem satisfied and this is the reason why the relationship ended?

a pure affair..? ...here i thought affairs were the reason relationships ended...

Why is a affair not considered a pure entity? Because it is a situation between two individual without the consent of the third person or society but we forget that before all the man-made rules of this world come into play, we, as a human race is a species like other animals on this planet then why is that a liking between a pair of person is not considered a relationship or reason for breaking of unworthy thing.

There's nothing pure about having an affair.

Because of the consequences of the affair relationship.


I don't think you understand natural rules.
For one thing, all animals have somewhat different rules of mating.

And here's some "natural rules" for human beings:

If a guy cheats, it brings insecurity to the relationship, and ultimately all relationships in a group.
His mate can no longer rely on him sticking around.
He also has less incentive to stick around and take care of any offspring.
His mate gets pregnant? Screw her, he's going to go off with the mistress. His mistress gets knocked up? Screw her, he's going back to his mate/wife.

If she cheats on a guy she's in a relationship with, then any kids that might come out of the relationship aren't guaranteed to be his.
So who takes care of the kid? Who is responsible for raising it?
Guys have a biological imperative to not be cuckolded.
And for most of history there were no DNA tests or contraception.

If he and/or she cheat with other "married" individuals, it creates more strife in a group that survives only as long as it's cohesive.
No one can trust their mate to not be sleeping with someone else, and no one knows whose kid is whose or whose DNA is going to be passed on. It might be just one guys DNA in all women.
If there is insecurity in the relationships that make up the group, the group has no real purpose, and will fail/dissolve.

"Natural law" makes people feel there's safety in numbers.
So anything that endangers the group is going to be labeled "bad."


Other than that, I can't really understand what you are asking.

Are you asking "why is an affair/cheating between two people not considered a real/good relationship and viable/positive reason for ending a bad relationship?"

Because most social constructs have roots in natural laws.
Like relationship insecurity is bad for communities or groups of people.
If you're in a relationship, end it before starting another one with a different person.
Not in the middle.
That just shows you aren't all that trustworthy and possibly irresponsible.

yeah....what he said ^^...

I think there is a language barrier here. It's very difficult to be sure what you are trying to say, OP.

You need to specify what you mean by "pure affair," for one thing. I get the feeling that you are trying to claim that when humans behave sexually, entirely in reaction to their animal lusts, that this is somehow a naturally good thing, which should be accepted by everyone involved.

If that's true, then for one thing, you are insulting a LOT of other animals on this planet. You might THINK that every species but humans, has sex with every other vaguely attractive member of their species, but that's not the case.

If you are referring instead to situations where one person knows that they are just screwing around, but the one thy are screwing around with, think they are starting something meaningful with a future, that's a whole other issue.