Dear Mingle friends,
My baby sister just passed away on last February from breast cancer.
I flew far away to see her and do my best stay next to her for 24 hours ....
My heart was broken very deep seeing her condition. No hope.
I keep pray and keep give her hope even we all know no more hope. I keep telling her how much I love her. And sorry if I don't enough give her attention.

After 2 weeks, I fly back to US, my head was blank 24 hours. I don't even think want to eat or feeling hungry.
After few days aim in FL, she passed away....and in few days before she die, she keep asking me, and how much she love me.

Dear Mingle Friends,
Till today, my heart still feeling broken. It doesn't matter I was driving, having breakfast , at work, shower or when I sleep, in 24 hours always thinking about her and cry.
I never stop praying for her.

I keep asking GOD to give her forgiveness and good place.
(She was very smart, very kindness, humble and loving person).

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I'm so sorry for your loss.

thank you....

R.I.P

Awwww.....so sorry.....
it just takes time.....but keeping up your faith and keeping busy will help your healing...

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Thank you Mikey5360,

Best wishes and condolences to you and your family

My Advice
1. Embrace the sorrow. Sorrow is not the opposite of happiness. Sorrow can be called the “beautiful sadness” when the feeling comes from a mixture of great appreciation and extreme longing for the loved one who has passed. It takes a human being a while to adjust to major changes in the world, such as the disappearance of a major pillar of our lives.
2. Do something positive in your friend’s name. You could start a charity or a scholarship fund. Make a donation. Plant a tree or something else that you can watch grow. This can help to ease the sadness back into joy.
3. Accept the pain. You can accept the pain and give yourself time to heal, mentally and physically, and understand you need time.
4. Don’t put a timer on the pain. that is a hard one to bear. I am sorry for your loss. I can only tell you that you must deal with your grief first and don’t put a timer on it. Some of us spring back easier than others. Eventually, you’ll allow yourself to smile again, laugh and remember sweet, happier times with her.
5. Believe that everything happens for a reason. I believe that prayer is answered when we welcome everything, even the crap that life throws our way. Be strong, be happy, and be aware that everything really does happen for a reason.
6. Reading Bible and Quran is useful for both of you.

Uh its her sister not a friend. ya ever get.feeling people pull stuff outta google and.pass it off as their own brilliance..lost my mom when I was 24 to cancer. It takes as long as it takes to heal . some days you are feeling ok and other days a memory comes back so strong feels like your guts are being ripped out all over again. I wish you peace and healing

Very sorry you are feeling such absence for your lost loved one.

Grief has it's own clock and you will heal when that time comes.

I would encourage you to feel the spirit of your loved one around you. With such a great love as you seem to feel I doubt it is barely a hairs breadth away from you even though comfortably beyond earthly bounds and concerns.

Try to feel the peace and tranquility that transends mortal life and death and move forward on your journey here. Don't overlook the special gifts and messages that are being left for you in every smile, every cool breeze, every small success you experience because it is still shared and there to give you the strength you need. She is missing nothing and giving you so much if you will just allow it to flow in and wash away the tears and loneliness. I am convinced love does not demand suffering.

You are not being punished because you lived, or she died, it is just a different distance than when you used to look across the family table or playing as children. Have faith you are of one spirit as you always were and always will be.

Your friends send you comfort and healing.

remembering how it was when my dad passed away, I know I don't have any words that can make it better right now.
my thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones. may she rest in peace

Thank you xsaeducx...

Thank you Lung1954

Thank you TMommy, I need years recovery after my parents passwed away when I was younger too. And now my baby sister.

Thank you PasificStar48...I really appreciate it...

Thank you Dreamerana...I appreciate it.I lose my parents when I was younger....

sorry to hear, you cant change what happened, but you can hold on to the good memories and focus on things that lift you up. Her spirit is still alive, you can talk to her even though she isnt physically there.. but she is where she is now, and she has moved on to her next journey

Sorry for this mistake I was reading "baby sister" as babysit. Because I'm learning English I use the net to help me building correct sentences.

Thank you juzjazzy222

I'm sorry to hear about your little sister passing. I lost my dear mother in March, all I think is our nice memories all the time.
Be strong and try to keep your mind occupied. Sending you (((hugs))) and prayers