Topic: do e-mails work
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Wed 10/10/07 12:57 PM
out of curiosity how many of you have actually started a friendship/relationship by just saying hi to as many people as you search for on here?

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Wed 10/10/07 01:01 PM
Supposedly people have done that on here but I usually don't e-mail anyone so I wouldn't know lol.bigsmile

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Wed 10/10/07 01:02 PM
We have had alot of couples meet here through e-mails,
posting, and eventually meeting. There have been alot
just recently who have found each other...

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Wed 10/10/07 01:02 PM
well I met one lady from here, who is local to me, but she wanted me to not only pay for her dinner but start paying her bills for her, and would not even offer to have a relationship with me. So I guess I don't count her....

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Wed 10/10/07 01:02 PM
i ask because the females located near by me i've never seen them on the forums and figured just to email them that eventually one might be interested and write back

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Wed 10/10/07 01:05 PM
Not all people write back...unfourtunately.
Have patience, perhaps some will write back soon...
Goodluck

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Wed 10/10/07 01:05 PM
i have...actually it started out as hey whats up? and now its a serious realationship....funni how things work aint it?

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Wed 10/10/07 01:05 PM
Its hard to strike up a friendship with someone that is looking for a date, but i have made a couple of "internet" friends, never dated from here, be a little scared to meet the first time, i think after that probably would be fine

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Wed 10/10/07 01:06 PM
try hard to really show an interest in them. mention something from their profile or a related interest you have

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Wed 10/10/07 01:07 PM
i don't really want a friendship (want a relationship) i was just making sure that people actually respond before i waste time lol

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Wed 10/10/07 01:09 PM
Have to be friends before a relationship.
Over past 8 yrs I have had one extended relationship.
We are still good friends.
I came to realize all I really want is friends.

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Wed 10/10/07 01:10 PM
no time wastd if you find someone, good luck

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Wed 10/10/07 01:16 PM
Well, it depends on what you are looking for, a friend or a potential lover. It would look silly if you e-mail someone and didn’t even read their profile to see if they are attached or have a diff preference.

You have to have an idea then give it a go…make it simple and tell that person your interest in them and see if they will reply….if they don’t, don’t whine, keep going

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Wed 10/10/07 01:18 PM
yea i didn't really look @ profiles just saw if they wanted someone for dating and sent an email... oh well if they dont like me who cares

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Wed 10/10/07 03:16 PM
well, sadly this girl who didnt even have a PICTURE didn't respond that's really pathetic :(

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Wed 10/10/07 03:17 PM
i've got one friend on here that i made that way...he's awesome and we banter back and forth daily. it really does work.