There's not much activity so I guess I'm doing something wrong any help? Not random comments

Welcome Joe :-)..Sometimes it's more about what you DON"T put in your profile...The more pics, the better ...And join in the forums...So many connections are made here!!...Luck, love and happiness!

Hello Joe

To be honest your pictures look serious bordering on aggressive. All of them.
Try changing them to ones where you're smiling.

I'm not being rude by the way.
I'm being honest about how I saw them.

Get yourself in the forums and you will meet some nice people.

Good luck

Hahaha thanks for your honesty I needed someone saying this stuff, I'll take your advice dude stay cool :)

Heyy, are you suggesting I should remove something? I'm taking your advice, more pics, smile more :P thanks good lady :)

Don't sound whiny, don't sound needy, don't sound like an azz....I haven't looked at your profile. I am just stating useful tips to help gain you attention (of course good pics help, but hey....chicks be reading these days so gotta sound grammatically sane dude).

I'm going a little off topic here, but... why? Do so many guys put on their profile ' hanging out' ?
Think about it. Young women very rarely say that. It they do, people would assume they are party girls or bi sexual.
Js, I don't think women find it attractive to think a guy is spending or will be spending a lot of time with "buds".
And these days a ' bromance ' perception can leave you out cold or worse.


* Yes,on the smiling pics *

State: "I am not a troll"

I really have no other advice to offer.

We do because we actually like hanging out with our buds I don't know why so many women don't understand this either :P it's always been like that I guss, do women don't like this on my profile either?! All of you say I must change everything, thanks for the ideas

This is the kind of reply I didn't wanna get

Do a quick google or some engine search with keywords such as:
"Online dating site profile tips"...?

I agree with everyone about your photos.

in regards to the 'hanging out with friends', I always think is he serious, or is he all his mates.

nothing wrong with friends at all,thats a good thing, but I wouldn't want a guy who was 'hanging out with his mates' all the time.

jmo though.

Okay thanks for your time :) have a good day

Hanging out is not the most flattering thing to offer someone to do. It comes off lazy and that the person is going to have to figure out what is going to be done and make the majority of decisions and maybe even pay for them. This does not inspire great confidence in your potential as a date. Using generic terms may make sense to you but loose in translation from male speak to female speak.

I agree the photos are not helping even though with a more engaging expression might have and entirely different response.

Update The new mix of photos is and improvement.

If you can tone down the wide eye just a little the long lashes will be a BIG draw with ladies with out looking a little over animated. Hit your closet and mix up the wardrobe. Color is good. Add a jacket in one for filling out your shoulders. And a full length shot that capitalizes on the lean without looking frail. You are fortunate you are young and thin, many would kill to be but, but you present it well it is more of an asset.

The green t-shirt that looks like military hand me down is not your best choice / color. Blue, red, and a fuller richer green will accent your coloring dark hair.

If you look at the viewer or toward your text by 10-20% it engages the reader in what you are saying whenever you post in forums on a lead shot.

That you follow advice you will find more people willing to engage with you and cheer you on. Welcome to Mingle . Good Luck.

I like the new pictures... Also your profile needs more... Sorry it does..What type of first contact emails are you sending out.
Is it a copy and paste email?
Is it just Hi or hello?
Anything like the above 3..Then you aren't going to get much if anything back.

If you are actually going to send out the first contact email put some work into it.
I mean read the interests and find something that you have in common that you can talk about.
Give us something to work with in that opening email...A lot of times you only get chance

Welcome and have fun out here

I like the new photos. and like pacific said, you've got nice long eye lashes, I want those, then I can put my mascara away lol

I guess you don't really notice all this criminal facts when you're my age and haven't met the amount of people you might have

I'm not sure if you were insulting me but what's wrong with my green t shirt? I wish I understood all your words that probably were right, but I'm still studying English, I feel attacked :P

Needs more whaaat!!! I don't get it whats going on what I've done now? So much help that I'm blocked, thank you good lady