they say love is blind yes i agree but it has eyes during problems for instance if you get your boyfie/galfie cheatin on you...what normaly happens??

I start cleaning my guns

was time for me to move one
i respect myself more then that

And when that phrase first started gaining popularity medicine and understanding of the human body was based on knowledge from around 1500 years before.

So if you follow the saying "love is blind" you should also follow the beliefs that illnesses are caused by "humours," bleeding is an effective means of curing disease, astrology and medicine are interlinked, doctors should be examined by the clergy before being licensed, and the idea that blood circulates is new and controversial.

"They" have said a loooooooot of things "they" shouldn't.

But, I guess that doesn't really stop anyone from the internet, so if you want to believe what "they" say that's your business.


People yell, and accuse, and attempt to figure out some way to save the relationship, to try and figure out if forgiveness and acceptance is possible, but many to maybe most times people can't get over it.

But really, "love" isn't pushing you to do see the problem, to care if someone is cheating on you, that's your own ego.

And, personally, I would question whether or not they were "truly" in love.

"Love" is only meant to bond romantic relationships for as long as you are trying to humpity humpity and make kids until any kids are old enough to run away from lions or open a refrigerator by themselves.

After a while, if there's no real progress on that front, that "love" fades, and people are pushed (or no longer impeded) to go find someone else to potentially have kids with.

Love has a purpose.
And it's not to reward you for being a good person and living up to socially or personally defined rules of wrong and right.



If you want a saying then "love" is blind and stupid.
It really doesn't care about social rules.
Only attraction, and the process that leads from lust to babies, and keeping people together long enough to make sure the kid(s) will survive.

the trouble is with many issues that arise, we don't see the signs of there being problems, gnot just cheat) whether it's in a relationship, friendship, family members or others we might be close to.
first we doubt ourselves.
then we lie to ourselves because that is easy and more comfortable than to think we don't matter or even accept blame if it was our fault.

then we tell ourselves if we can try harder, love more or whatever.

by then we have allowed something to progress beyond something we can forgive and it's time to move on

Move on because he didn't really love in the first place.
I was thinking of a punishment with a razor blade, layer by layer.
Sorry I spoke that out loud.

Guns are too loud, I like my swords.....

Love conquers all...... Love rapes all, love pillages all, and love leaves everyone for dead!

Love is often overrated.

Not much I leave...
Go get complete std testing done..
So not going to waste my time...

Love may be blind but my heart sees 20/20. If I catch my man cheating he knows the sights on my gun are also 20/20. Not that I care if he says he wants to go; leave and don't let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya. I am a big girl I can take care of myself. But cheat and leave something with me behind; and that is justifiable homicide and I am glad to do that time.

I am on board with this.

Ooo I expect I would feel.dumb..betrayed..question whether there had been any love in first place

take care of me

Love is love. 'True' love knows not 'deceit' 'guile' 'logic' 'reason' 'condition' 'benefits' 'sympathy' 'arrangement' or any other 'humanly comprehensible factor' excepting 'love' itself.

A loving heart has always known to 'love'..and 'love' only...'!


If someone finds her 'boyfie' or his 'galfie' cheating on 'her' or 'him' (as the case may be), then love didn't exist in the first place. It was either a one-way affinity or a lop-sided fondness/penchant for the other...But it wasn't true love

Why are we even bothering to remember these people who did us wrong? Why don't we just go and party instead? I don't want to sit and think about how so-and-so lead me on. I want to have a good time.

Well obviously good use of grammar is also blind.

IDK!!!...One thing I'm not going to do is react blindly...Too many emotions involved...Things like anger, hurt, even fear could cause me to do something I would regret later...There will always be time to kick his azz to the curb AFTER I figure things out...If there are children involved, I'm going to be thinking about them too...When I confront him, I want to have solid proof and a plan that works for me...To get past a lie of this magnitude is not something that most of us can do, but I have seen couples succeed with my own eyes so I know it's possible...Ending a marriage is a huge decision, maybe even a bigger than deciding to tie the knot in the first place...So yeah, IDK...