Topic: Hi I'm New and Struggling
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Sun 05/31/15 10:47 AM
So.. a few years ago I finally came out as pansexual. I mostly connect with guys and have more guy friends than anything. I always talk about how girls are awesome and I'd love to have more girlfriends or even a special lady. problem is.. even though I'm a girl, I don't really know how to talk to or attract another girl. They always say just be yourself but that obviously isn't working. Anyone have some helpful tips and suggestions?

sanam987's photo
Sun 05/31/15 10:53 AM
U mean to say being a girl u a attracted to girls??

Rooster35's photo
Sun 05/31/15 10:54 AM

So.. a few years ago I finally came out as pansexual. I mostly connect with guys and have more guy friends than anything. I always talk about how girls are awesome and I'd love to have more girlfriends or even a special lady. problem is.. even though I'm a girl, I don't really know how to talk to or attract another girl. They always say just be yourself but that obviously isn't working. Anyone have some helpful tips and suggestions?


Patience and not being afraid to engage people.
You look great and seem to have a nice personality, I hope you find what you're looking for on here or somewhere else.
Good luck :smile:

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Sun 05/31/15 10:56 AM
if you are having trouble, maybe you are trying to be something you are not? why try and label yourself? i guarantee i guarantee that labels are for cans so that you will know what is in them without having to open them
if you really want to belong to a certain group of people, hang out with those types of people. find local places that cater to those types and join in. once you meet a few of them, they will most likely introduce you to the lifestyle

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Sun 05/31/15 11:31 AM
What is a pansexual?
Never heard of it.

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Sun 05/31/15 11:41 AM
A man is so much different, so attrackting, so wonderful. Men are really worth to be with, to be loved and going with them through the ups and downs of life. I thank God for my husband, who is the only solution for my life.
Good luck to you dear!

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Sun 05/31/15 04:29 PM

What is a pansexual?
Never heard of it.

pansexuality, or omnisexuality, is sexual attraction, romantic love, or emotional attraction toward people of any sex or gender identity