Community > Coffee Houses, Bars & Chit Chat

Topic: I'm special....
no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Fri 05/29/15 06:27 AM
YEAH!.. YOUR SPECIAL ALRIGHT..LOL. ... now strap your helmet on !..I see the little bus is coming up the driveway ,to collect you now.. ... jk.. Boo Hiss not a very nice thing to say. Wait until you have a child or grandchild comes home in tears because some kid repeats this kind of bad taste humor. ..ohh..come on now she knows I'm joking besides she's too big for the little bus..age wise that is ... ..and I am aware that some people have special needs children.....and may find my little jab at the o p in poor taste...but if I was to censor everything I said because it might offend a particular group of people...

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Fri 05/29/15 06:39 AM
Sooooo you'll be remaining silent then for rest of day?

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Fri 05/29/15 06:40 AM
. ..

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Sat 05/30/15 07:16 AM
Errrr excuse me Madam Basher. Mingle just wouldn't be the same without you. Shine on you crazy diamond. Yay!!!....thank you for this!....

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Sat 05/30/15 07:18 AM
We women love genuine compliments, men. So hop to it.

d__u__b Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 15048	Sat 05/30/15 07:23 AM
some of us guys actually enjoy paying genuine compliments.

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Sat 05/30/15 07:29 AM
How much are those paying nowadays? OP is special because she is a.cool chick with great sense of humor

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Sat 05/30/15 07:31 AM
How much are those paying nowadays? OP is special because she is a.cool chick with great sense of humor Compliments about my sense of humor are my favorite compliments... Thank you.

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Sat 05/30/15 07:36 AM
Not taking away from Basha's shine. She knows she's cool. :-) Some of us actually don't need to pay for compliments. That's why they're genuine. :-) :-)

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Sat 05/30/15 07:41 AM
I like giving compliments because I only say what I really mean. I absolutely detest hearing them...tend to irritate the crap out of me and tick me off

d__u__b Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 15048	Sat 05/30/15 07:47 AM Edited by d__u__b on Sat 05/30/15 07:49 AM
I like giving compliments because I only say what I really mean... QFT ...tend to irritate the crap out of me and tick me off get over it, and don't be an *** about it. (unless, of course, they're just talkin' smack and think you're gullible in which case you are fully within your rights and have full authorization from decent people everywhere to KICK 'EM RIGHT IN THA NUTZ!!! )

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33269	Sat 05/30/15 07:54 AM
I think many ppl do know they're special, but what does that mean really until someone else sees it too and tells you so? Everyone needs some recognition and acknowledgement of who they are, and it's usually ppl that love us that give us that. Friends, family, a lover. And there's certain things we don't reveal to everyone, just our lover. So he/she would compliment on those special things that no one else knows about you... I've lived with someone who never complimented, only mentioned the things he didn't like. I still felt special, good etc. But it doesn't mean jack when your loved one doesn't seem to notice, or does notice but chooses to never mention them. You go on feeling special, but it hurts like he\|\| ... So I think it's all about the acknowledgement

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Sat 05/30/15 07:54 AM
I like giving compliments because I only say what I really mean. I absolutely detest hearing them...tend to irritate the crap out of me and tick me off I LOVE compliments!...Great for my EGO...

WonderWoman48 Joined Tue 01/27/15 Posts: 1560	Sat 05/30/15 07:54 AM Edited by WonderWoman48 on Sat 05/30/15 07:55 AM
Do we need compliments to feel us good? Do people always mean what they say? Do people always say what they mean? I don't think so. The world is full of liars, hypocrites, crooks and two faced people.

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Sat 05/30/15 07:56 AM
Wow! Who peed in your cornflakes?

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Sat 05/30/15 08:25 AM Edited by TMommy on Sat 05/30/15 08:27 AM
Mmmmm if it comes from one of my family such as one of my children or from a friend who really knows me?that's different then random BS spewed at me online all day long.Ya feeling me on that?gosh birdbeak though I thank ya for that unsolicited advice. uh no worries I got this covered

d__u__b Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 15048	Sat 05/30/15 08:28 AM
after you just put the fear of god into us about how you view compliments???...i'm not touching you.

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Sat 05/30/15 08:34 AM
Haaahaa let me guess..you love getting them?

d__u__b Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 15048	Sat 05/30/15 08:54 AM
don't really need them. like you, i don't think i am very good at accepting them, but idon't try to hurt anyone over them either. well, unless they were asking for it.

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Sat 05/30/15 09:48 AM
I've never considered myself to be special. Until I met someone I considered to be very special. Truth. That is just sad... You were special long before we came into each others lives. People all have something very special about them.. Sometimes it is harder to see in some than others but there is a precious light in each person if we just stop and see it.