I'm on here because my girlfriend says I am really bad at flirting. She knows about me being on this site and she is cool with it, but I can't shake the feeling that this is right.

Is it okay to flirt with others on a site like this being in a relationship?

. sure nothing wrong with flirting..
..... now if you pick someone up and take them home... that's something totally different..lol.... is your girlfriend pretty....?.. ..jk

Doh....

To me. She is very pretty, love her a bunch. I would never cheat on her and I think that is the reason why she challenged me in the first place.

Your profile name is "Flirtatious06"...
But you dont know how to flirt....
And youre asking permission to flirt....
On a dating site....
With the blessing of your girlfriend...
Who complains about you not knowing how to flirt....















I sure hope you see the irony in this...on so many levels....

To you... well I'm sure she is..
.. but.. seeing how we just met and all..
Hmm.. would you mind putting a picture of her on your profile..?..

. its not that I don't trust you..
and you seem to have good taste..

But.. you know how these things go . chapo.... one man's bologna sandwiches... is another man's.... steak sandwich...lol...... ask your girlfriend.... if my flirting skills are up to par...lol..jk... dude..lol

The whole point of this, is to show my g/f that I can flirt ( the best you can online) to prove girlfriend wrong.

The topic was to see if anyone else thinks this is wrong, bad, weird that my g/f challenged me to do this.

Personally I find flirting with other girls other than my g/f weird and pointless. I wanted to hear other people's opinion.

your girlfriend is smart....perhaps more then you.....she wants to be flirting with others & maybe more & knows the game & can see you lack certain skills so to keep you busy at that or whatever she told you while shes busy doing her thing similar to this....nice relationship.....Not

Ok..op... just pretend your girlfriend is online right now...ok..... how would you flirt with her..?.... don't be shy..!..

.... tell her how beautiful her eyes look.. what a lovely smile she has..

... you know lay it on.. really thick..
like with a peanut butter knife..lol

Well I feel this is all wrong.....
you being here.....
her challenging or testing you.....
just wrong.....*shrugs*

Its a lil Weird for a woman to want her man to flirt with other women...best of luck to you with that

... just to show you what a good sport I am...op... I'll let you flirt with my girlfriend..ok...... speaking of my girlfriend.. where is that woman when I need her..!lol..ohhh iam Who I am... come out come out wherever you are..lmao....... I'll be right back..
Ok.. I'll just go ask her if it's OK..
. that is if she wouldn't mind...
. if you practice your flirting skills on her..

your whole scenario sounds like a well thought out con-job designed to get
women to notice and flirt with you......not bad, not bad...i've seen worse plans... ...

I'd say you're in trouble and need a new girlfriend. she is not the least frightened of losing you

No enchantment and no love ::
Passion can get lost in several places but one place is in the hallows of beauty, love or enchantment. What happens when enchanted moments become divine? What happens when beauty all of sudden becomes sacred? What about when all of sudden the love we feel has a sense of ineffability, a sense of being holy? Beauty around me and beauty that all of sudden becomes sacred are two different things. One I love and the other can be frightening. When love becomes sacred, the fear of loss exponentially expands. "I may love love but the hallows of love terrify me." Passion lies in the hallows of beauty, love or enchantment, and we are afraid to go there, to a love where miracles happen.

And that's is why there are mostly those without the ultimate motive .. do you know what that is?
It's NOT just to do the horizontal happy hour

Or she is trying to see if your conscience kicks in and you decide that you have Mingle friends but flirting is no longer a needed skill set beyond what you do with her. Never belive permission to do something is endorsement to do it. Time to really Man up or keep playing like a playboy so when you turn around and she is gone you have no one to blame but yourself.

Wondering if she has anything to do with your username.
Dead giveaway.

the problem we testing the breaking point is - what happens if it breaks? - testing has little to do with honesty, more like skirting the terrifying issues of Intimacy - meaning when someone knows you better than you know your self.

I want something terrifying, thrilling, emotionally breath-taking, where there is great fear of loss, because then I would know we are close. Wrestle the fear and face it, deal with it and move beyond into the sacred hallows where passion is found, beyond the fears.

It seems u r expert in flirt

I don't buy your story.. at all. I don't think you have a girlfriend. I think this is some lame angle to get attention from the ladies.

JMO

P.J. Get a real haircut next time.. again.. JMO

Well that's beautiful.darling that ya got such a kind and patient girl that wants ya to learn new stuff
..today flirting hmmmm wonderr what tomorrow will be