I've been on here for month and well I know something special wont happen just like that but I'm ready for something. Sucks cause of my age no thinks I am that I'm some young perv when all I di is message you "Hi:)" but even then ideally just want to get to know someone first age or having kids really doesn't bother me I really want to show someone not all guys are a like so if anyone wants to give me a chance to prove or anything i'll be here and thank you <3

Just trying to help, not trying to be a jerk.

While this might not apply to all women, there are many that will not respond to a message that just says hi. You might want to try putting more in there. Talk about yourself a little. Talk about things they have in their profile.

Sometimes no response is a response. That is something to keep in mind as well.

Good luck out there.

I was on here for few hours first day!

i noticed some hot cougars but they never respond to me

i found lot of pretty girl online they didnt respond either

i start think this site has low population or maybe its just today..


then after i send like 10 email to pretty women.

BOOM

out of the blue some girl read my profile and likes me , i talk to her and she really freaking hot but shes hardcore christian and doesnt have sex right off the bat, i can respect it and its very aluring

im startin to fall for this girl already .

keep your head high bro maybe worko n your profile just talk to as many girls as u can u will find lot of exlect people out there

she work at an orphanage and wants her own kids, i just broke up with a married girl she wanted me to move on and start a family maybe this could be how it starts :D

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When you're vague, people will fill in the details themselves.
And it's usually not in your favor.
Unless you are very hot and very charismatic.

If you are vague a lot, to most, women are going to assume "something" to mean "just sex."

If you are ready for a relationship, use relationship.

If you just want to date, use date.

If you want a friend, friend first, to take things slow, use those terms.

"Something" makes it seem like you're trying to avoid using those labels, which on dating sites means you are looking for sex.


In my experience most people want far more than "hi" in a first message.

Most, if not all if they offer any kind of advice, dating sites on the internet tell you not to just write "hi" as a first message.


I read this a lot.
First before what?
I was always curious about what exactly do you know about them that makes you go "aha! Okay, now the first thing down, that's over with, let's go on to the next!"


Maybe a lack of both bothers them?


Maybe not worry about showing them all guys are not alike and focus on trying to show who you are, not worrying about all other guys at all? Or how you "might" be judged?