... do you enjoy it..?... and I don't mean... you have been a bad bad partner !now go sit in the corner..lol..

... and how naughty can it be..
do you have a line... that you don't cross ,or want your partner to cross..

.. and do you find it easier to do.. naughty talk over the phone .. then in person...lol.... that is do you find it easier... to use those ohh. so so hot words... from the safety of your phone... but then when you have your lover in person.... those same words you were using . earlier seem to xscape you.... when you are in the moment...?..

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.. yes something like that..^^..
but in various degrees of intensity...lol

What did he say???

Are you able to rename it? It stretched out the thread.

Oohhh.."" behave"" .. baby.
....... are there well be no.. twigs and berries for you.... no bits and Bob..
.. no bangers and mash baby.....lol

Baby, post on the other threads in the meantime...

Alright I'll state my opinion on this

In a relationship where I am in love ? Make your blood boil in your veins.
your body ache and your skin feel like its on fire I got a helluva imagination and extensive vocabulary and there ain't a damn thing wrong with my libido. .

but sex.texting and dirty bedtime stories with strangers I am never going to meet who do not care about me? I find empty,boring,tedious,repetitive and waste of time

Exactly....

yes somebody you are intimate with already..... I can get sex text anywhere......lol...ok.... admittedly I initiate it... but still.. .lol..



. and cherry wine... what other threads... if there is something more interesting to comment on I would never started this one...lmao

.. so do you find you send naughty text messages to your lover throughout the day...

. do you think it helps with the intensity of the... naughty making let's say..lol

Sometimes.
Especially if its with someone I'm having sex with.

But if it's a 63 year old boss that comes up behind me and starts whispering naughty things in my ear, where I can feel their coffee and halitosis breath condensing on my neck and ear....ehhhhh, not so much.


Just depends on the person.
Two different people can say the same line in the same way but based on what I know about them I know they can mean it in totally different ways, or it's coming from a totally different place.



I find it easier to do in person than on the phone.
Over the phone just feels stupid.
But every time I sit on the phone and chat or talk naughty it always reminds me of the time I dated a deaf girl.

She had a service where she'd call but I would speak to some guy and he typed it out to her phone or computer or something, then she'd speak a response.
And every time we phoned I would end up trying to start a conversation with the dude translating, and any flirting or "naughty" response was just freaky weird.


I find using them as a visual makes it easier than me staring at the t.v. or a blank wall while I'm trying to come up with something naughty when really, we should be able to get together.

I don't do long distance relationships.


The new words are usually better and more relevant.

If I am desiring intimacy it is not about talking.

Dirty talk on the phone or in letters never was and interest to me; especially when I was missing my "deployed" partner. Then it seemed more like cruel and unusual punishment.

Agreed

There is a certain talent in cybering, texting, naughty talk that if 2 people come together as one and have a certain amount of chemistry, whether it be love or lust, the experience will be quite the opposite: rich, exciting, adventurous, exhilirating and worthwhile, and well worth the time. Not everyone is well versed in the art of cybering. Some people are talented writers, poets, lyricists and they can make it work. The rest, not so much. But don't despair. Practice makes perfect.

These ladies got it. I can't think of a better way to say it myself.

So, Rug, you wouldn't cyber with me?

You wouldn't want me to anyway. I'm terrible at that kind of thing.

See that's what I meant by practice makes perfect. Lol

While I believe I have all the needed vocabulary. I think I would rather use my tongue for other purposes.