anybody up to tell the truth about me? :P

hi. welcome. add a little detail to your profile so it makes it easier to start a conversation.
and smile a little in your pic.
good luck on your search

Welcome to Mingle.

Tell the truth about you?

Do you mean your chances? If you follow Dream's advice I would say pretty good for a guy your age. You might want to post some photos that show your interests and in civilian clothes.

Lot of the people in the forums are older but you will be welcome if you are respectful and friendly and posting there will get you a lot more views from people your age. If you post even a few comments on a regular basis the fear factor will go down and the younger people will be more likely to pick up and chat with you. There are many nice ones here. Keep checking your match list. Wish people Happy Holiday or refer to their interests in your emails but understand your peers get thousands of emails and often if they don't answer it is because they are busy or interested in someone else, or don't want to hurt your feelings but don't care for something about you.

I think the chances of you getting flooded with scammer mail is pretty good so I would definitely follow the New Member guidelines and not take any of the attention too seriously; especially if they are not posting in forums. Play safe.

Good Luck. Again Welcome.

Thank you lady, that is so many things to do and I'm lazy.. :/ I'll have to start looking up how the forums work and all this stuff, I appreciate your honesty :) and your time, you seem very nice, thanks a lot to you and good luck with your life

Well I think your profile needs some work.. Pictures of things that you like to do..

Also if you are to lazy how are you going to be able to keep up with the mail that will come into your box???

I don't know it's easier to reply to messages than having an awesome profile :P