Topic: Is failure your goal?
regularfeller's photo
Fri 05/22/15 01:10 PM



I'm usually too shy to say or do anything, plus I hate rejection.ohwell


Do you want to be my girlfriend?


Wow....ummm.....you're the first person who's ever asked......sureblushing :wink:


surprised

TMommy's photo
Fri 05/22/15 04:16 PM
Wow this stuff really does work bigsmile

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Fri 05/22/15 04:28 PM

REJECTION!

Do you fear it so much you don't even make an attempt?

If you don't ask, you have chosen the answer "NO" yourself. Go out on a limb! Roll the dice! Take a chance! What's the worst that can happen, you cross one more off the list?

You aren't asking them to get married and have babies - you are asking to have an opportunity to get to know them. Heck, YOU may wind up NOT liking THEM once you do!

Did you always land the first job you applied for? Did that stop you from asking for employment? Use that same persistence in your quest for love!

I "flip the script" on dread - my goal is to be REJECTED at least once a day!

:banana: One day I will FAIL to reach my goal!

Discuss among yourselves, I'm off to the beach for my daily goal attainment session (plus the women are wearing swim suits pitchfork )







I would be more concerned about not taking the chance then failure. I think if you don't take the chances, you have already failed

JMO

regularfeller's photo
Fri 05/22/15 05:24 PM

Wow this stuff really does work bigsmile


:laughing:

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Fri 05/22/15 05:35 PM

Wow this stuff really does work bigsmile


laugh

Rock's photo
Fri 05/22/15 07:36 PM
Can't succeed at anything,
if one is unwilling to take risks.

Step up!

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 05/22/15 08:08 PM
I have never let the fear of rejection stop me from asking a guy out or making the first move. Life is short and I don't have all day.

no photo
Fri 05/22/15 08:23 PM
Just got done throwing my resume at the EPA, let see if they too think I lack the experience.

regularfeller's photo
Fri 05/22/15 09:08 PM

Just got done throwing my resume at the EPA, let see if they too think I lack the experience.


We're ALL rootin' for you!

Valeris's photo
Sun 05/24/15 10:15 PM
To quote my Mother [R.I.P.], "Throw enough sh#t against the wall; something's got to stick..."

rug212001's photo
Sun 05/24/15 10:22 PM

To quote my Mother [R.I.P.], "Throw enough sh#t against the wall; something's got to stick..."

That is simultaneously the most disgusting things I've heard in a while, and makes a good point. Bravo to your mom on that one.

dreamerana's photo
Sun 05/24/15 10:24 PM
hmm. interesting topic.
I was kinda bored and you've given me something to think about

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 05/24/15 10:25 PM


To quote my Mother [R.I.P.], "Throw enough sh#t against the wall; something's got to stick..."

That is simultaneously the most disgusting things I've heard in a while, and makes a good point. Bravo to your mom on that one.


LOL I kind of got to agree with this but in on line dating I think that is often the case.

The people I date often read what I post and look me up or I give them my Mingle screen name and they either run away screaming or say Hell yea. lol

rug212001's photo
Sun 05/24/15 10:38 PM

The people I date often read what I post and look me up or I give them my Mingle screen name and they either run away screaming or say Hell yea. lol

As is should be. You have a kind heart, an intelligent mind, and rather opinionated. Some people can't handle that in one package and others love it.

no photo
Sun 05/24/15 11:50 PM
Rejection, Especially around dating sites, Doesn't bother me one bit. I just move on to the next one.

regularfeller's photo
Mon 05/25/15 03:49 AM

hmm. interesting topic.
I was kinda bored and you've given me something to think about


This is NOT something to THINK about, this IS something to DO!

Make your move on whoever (whomever?) you zany jewel! :banana:

dreamerana's photo
Mon 05/25/15 09:21 AM


hmm. interesting topic.
I was kinda bored and you've given me something to think about


This is NOT something to THINK about, this IS something to DO!

Make your move on whoever (whomever?) you zany jewel! :banana:


at the moment I find myself alone again. there are people on here I admire who all live far.
so I'm just enjoying time with friends and getting back into my sport

regularfeller's photo
Mon 05/25/15 09:29 AM



hmm. interesting topic.
I was kinda bored and you've given me something to think about


This is NOT something to THINK about, this IS something to DO!

Make your move on whoever (whomever?) you zany jewel! :banana:


at the moment I find myself alone again. there are people on here I admire who all live far.
so I'm just enjoying time with friends and getting back into my sport


:laughing: Hacky sack isn't a sport!


You cranking out any home runs yet? Softball, right?

HoneyFly's photo
Mon 05/25/15 09:38 AM

Discuss among yourselves..


So this is a polite way to ask strangers if they want an orgy party. Smooth talker you.

dreamerana's photo
Mon 05/25/15 10:00 AM




hmm. interesting topic.
I was kinda bored and you've given me something to think about


This is NOT something to THINK about, this IS something to DO!

Make your move on whoever (whomever?) you zany jewel! :banana:


at the moment I find myself alone again. there are people on here I admire who all live far.
so I'm just enjoying time with friends and getting back into my sport


:laughing: Hacky sack isn't a sport!


You cranking out any home runs yet? Softball, right?

I'm working on that. right now I'm lucky to make it to second.

btw hacky sack takes skill and coordination. I'd fall on my face tripping over my own feet trying to do that laugh