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Topic: Almost tired of looking or waiting to be found
justme659's photo
Tue 06/23/15 05:53 PM
Hang in there, the right guy for you just has not joined yet.

no photo
Mon 06/29/15 02:19 PM
Oh well, if you have nothing better to do with your time, stop on by and chat a spell. Good luck waving

SweetAussieKisses's photo
Sun 07/19/15 02:45 PM
You know i find it seems to be all about the picture most men forget to read the rest lol Beauty is on the inside

Cinnamon37's photo
Mon 08/10/15 09:18 PM
8 out 10 men that talk to me I look them up, guess what? They are scammers. I think they think women are stupid, I got news for them this lady is up on her scammer news .

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Tue 08/11/15 03:16 AM
I agree, this site is the pits .... nothing good has come of it. But I like the forum in the 50 and over section. Other places don't have this. I have shoes older than some of the guys that try to contact me.. so I have changed my settings a lot. I have no desire to look for a younger man. With age comes wisdom usually.

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Mon 08/17/15 03:43 AM
I so agree !!!!!

Amelinng's photo
Mon 08/17/15 04:25 AM

Come in forums and play and chat who knows ya might meet someone



I don't mean to sound mean but when I see something like this I have to ask..Don't we meet some type of scammers and fakes in the real world in every day life?
So if we agree with that, what makes this such a bad place



I don't agree with that. I'm very particular about who I meet and interact with in the real world. I have my own filter that allows me to avoid contact with all sorts of undesirable people.

It is virtually impossible to avoid a HIGH VOLUME of e-mails and contact from scammers on this particular website.


All of your replies are realistic..... and applies within and without of this site.

I have 'met' quite a number of people from here and most I know from the forums and yes, they are real people.....and yes, it is possible to meet a special some one or two.

And I have also met scammers and fakes in the real world, and they can be just as easy or difficult to spot..... experience counts.

It's true...... the volume of emails and contact from scammers on this site is 'infinite'..... they just come and come and come!
I have learnt to 'ignore' emails which I feel are from scammers.

TMommy's photo
Mon 08/17/15 06:37 AM
I ignore most emails
if they only have one pic of themselves posted
if it's a military pic
I run it thru google images
if the city and state do not match
if their grammar/syntax is off and they claim to be American

clintwny's photo
Mon 08/17/15 09:30 AM
I find it is not just the men who make judgement solely on the picture.

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Thu 08/20/15 11:42 AM

I can't believe how hard it is to find (or be found by) someone that I'm interested in! What's the deal? I feel like the men that have contacted me don't read my profile. It would be nice to have a date with a man that has real interest in who I am - not just the pictures.


Being a man, although I can honestly say that I only speak for one man. Men buy cars, houses, take vacations, buy clothes and other things basically on appearances. As a man I can also say that negative attitudes is a real turn off. I think as a man, even though I can speak for only one man, you may want to drop the last small paragraph from your profile. Actually your pictures look nice. You may be a nice person. I do sincerely wish you the best success in your search. Take care and God bless.

loverofheart's photo
Sat 09/12/15 02:46 PM

I can't believe how hard it is to find (or be found by) someone that I'm interested in! What's the deal? I feel like the men that have contacted me don't read my profile. It would be nice to have a date with a man that has real interest in who I am - not just the pictures.


loverofheart's photo
Sat 09/12/15 02:50 PM
I have tried to reach you and wonder why I got no response I found out I am 63 and you stop at men age62 but I am still here if you would like to chat and get better acquainted?

1onlyaname's photo
Sat 09/12/15 03:05 PM
I read your profile you have quite a few limitations. the one hope u like dog hair? that limits u to avid pet owners right there. taller men just cut out avid pet owners under 5' 8" you Are missing some of the ones that do read your profile.

tta1128's photo
Sat 09/12/15 03:47 PM
It's really very simple. It's a numbers game. Think about if you had to go to a bar to meet your right guy. How often would you have to be there? Too often. You'd be the barfly. lol

It takes patience and the ability to weed out the fakes.

Jaan Doh 's photo
Sun 09/13/15 06:16 AM
What you need is a butterfly net ...




or a baseball bat ...


:laughing: :laughing:
rofl rofl

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