Topic: rate me.
betrayedwife128's photo
Thu 05/21/15 04:53 AM
I'm very new to this so let me know what you thinksmile2

SitkaRains's photo
Thu 05/21/15 08:21 AM

I'm very new to this so let me know what you thinksmile2

Hi welcome to Mingle
I would love to rate your profile
but saying I will tell you later doesn't give me much to work with...
Maybe list some interests.
Write abit more about who you are
Write a bit about what you are looking for as a friend.
Post more than one picture

Good luck out here.

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 05/21/15 08:43 AM
Depends what your true purpose for posting a profile is.

If it is to put your face out there as a victim then you can stay with the status quo. It more often than not backfires.

But it does paint a target on your forehead for every wolf in the world to take another bite out of you or to attract the pitiful misery loves company crowd.

If the goal is to attract healthy fun people you want to back out regroup and write a profile that shows you are a real person with personality and interests that would compliment their lives. That should not be hard with the natural beauty and life experience you have. Your life situation may be tough but you have to be smart and play the cards you are dealt wisely.

Starting with a negative is a sales technique but it is like digging yourself into the ground a couple feet and standing there hoping someone will be willing to do the work you are not willing to do for yourself. That is very rare and often comes with an obligation that is not going to help a new relationship.

There are a lot of people on Mingle to befriend you and give you fellowship with out making your situation worse. Most not all have had at least one failed relationship and gotten through it. Many thrive and move on to better lives with people they befriend here. Good luck.

RabbittFL's photo
Thu 05/21/15 09:36 AM
Certainly NOT interested!!

no photo
Tue 05/26/15 02:50 AM
Maybe changing your profile name would be a good idea. I think most people would want to steer clear of someone when they are angry, and your username certainly suggests this. I think even a nice profile blurb wouldn't overcome this, as it gives the impression that you are still hurting, which is fine and I feel for you if you are, but if you are genuinely wanting to hook up with someone wouldn't it be nice for them if you were able to give your best for them?