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Topic: "ON A MORE SERIOUS NOTE"
Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Mon 05/18/15 01:44 AM
Hey you folks ,Hope that you're all doing fine ,I know that I'm known for talking Chit alot, lol,but on a serious note,I turn to you,my mingle family for some advice,here's the thing,I know there are some folks that don't know,or never met their father,well,I'm one of them,and here's where it gets interesting,one of my brother on my dad's side,is going to get me his phone contact!!! So now you're probably saying,OH great,that's wonderful,yes,it is,but I have not a single clue what would I say,or what should I say,especially after all these years!!! Anyone here had to go through something like that?And if you have any suggestions,please,"I'm all ears",thank you mingle family!!

Datwasntme Joined Fri 07/25/14 Posts: 9701	Mon 05/18/15 01:48 AM
never been through it sometimes i wish i didn't know my father my advice , be yourself best wishes : ) i cant even imagine really hope it goes well for you PS: you talk Chit .... really ? ? ? never noticed : ) he he he

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Mon 05/18/15 01:52 AM
never been through it sometimes i wish i didn't know my father my advice , be yourself best wishes : ) i cant even imagine really hope it goes well for you PS: you talk Chit .... really ? ? ? never noticed : ) he he he Lol ,thanks man,I appreciate it man!!

Datwasntme Joined Fri 07/25/14 Posts: 9701	Mon 05/18/15 01:55 AM
just wish i had some solid advice for ya : ( i was going to say ring ring ring .... they and answer and you say "Hi" thought it would make ya smile but being real , i didn't want too any who as norm , i am useless <shrug> best i can do is send you best of luck

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 05/18/15 02:00 AM Edited by debbie1980 on Mon 05/18/15 02:01 AM
good luck. and what datwasntme said, just be yourself

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Mon 05/18/15 02:06 AM
good luck. and what datwasntme said, just be yourself Yeah,I agree,thanks deb!

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Mon 05/18/15 02:08 AM
just wish i had some solid advice for ya : ( i was going to say ring ring ring .... they and answer and you say "Hi" thought it would make ya smile but being real , i didn't want too any who as norm , i am useless <shrug> best i can do is send you best of luck Thanks b!

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 05/18/15 02:09 AM
good luck. and what datwasntme said, just be yourself Yeah,I agree,thanks deb! im really excited and happy for you, keep us updated.

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Mon 05/18/15 02:12 AM
I think I'd really like to hang out with him ,have a few beers and maybe shoot some pool,that would be really awesome !!

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Mon 05/18/15 02:14 AM Edited by Awatersign on Mon 05/18/15 02:15 AM
good luck. and what datwasntme said, just be yourself Yeah,I agree,thanks deb! im really excited and happy for you, keep us updated. Yes,I sure would,I won't be able to go see him right now though,but hopefully soon! Thanks

Datwasntme Joined Fri 07/25/14 Posts: 9701	Mon 05/18/15 02:15 AM
I think I'd really like to hang out with him ,have a few beers and maybe shoot some pool,that would be really awesome !! hope it goes as planed : )

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 05/18/15 02:15 AM
I think I'd really like to hang out with him ,have a few beers and maybe shoot some pool,that would be really awesome !! cool, a relaxed environment where you can have a drink and a chat, good idea.

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Mon 05/18/15 02:18 AM
Yep,I'm going to have a whooole lot of questions though,kinda like a kid again

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Mon 05/18/15 02:19 AM
That beer and pool thing sounds like a good idea,I didn't see or talk to my father for over 20 years once, he contacted me when he got ill. Take advantage of your time just have a beer and shoot the breeze.Good luck to you.

Unknow Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 64077	Mon 05/18/15 02:22 AM
((( AWaterSign ))) What an incredible new beginning in your life! Honor your spirit, always, and things will unfold as they should...

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Mon 05/18/15 02:22 AM
That beer and pool thing sounds like a good idea,I didn't see or talk to my father for over 20 years once, he contacted me when he got ill. Take advantage of your time just have a beer and shoot the breeze.Good luck to you. Thanks alot Jack,like datwasntme said,I hope it goes as planned,thanks!!

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Mon 05/18/15 02:26 AM
((( AWaterSign ))) What an incredible new beginning in your life! Honor your spirit, always, and things will unfold as they should... Thank so much stormy,this year alone feels so much different already,I've noticed alot of things are making full circle!

Pansytilly Joined Mon 06/09/14 Posts: 11310	Mon 05/18/15 02:27 AM
he might talk the same language you do

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Mon 05/18/15 02:30 AM Edited by Awatersign on Mon 05/18/15 02:32 AM
he might talk the same language you do Yeah lol

Unsure64 Joined Sun 05/10/15 Posts: 20	Mon 05/18/15 02:40 AM
Wow...that is really exciting! Just be you and enjoy your father...they won't be here forever. I have never had an issue like this so all I can say is good luck, I hope it goes great!