I am attracted to older men, maybe just mature guys. I don't want to rush anything. I want to get to know you. I want someone that can make me happy. Maybe I ask for too much? Hello? Anyone?

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i am attracted to younger gals....like you who need a daddy...soft kisses love....security...we can enjoy ALL

I want a new car. Life ain't BURGER king can't have it your way.

Kidding! Good luck

I am confused a bit you stated you are 23 but your profile says 31???




That is personal preference, no biggie... People are attracted to what they are.. own it and go for it.



Last, I looked there is no stop watch running on this game of life.
take all the time you in need in this world.



I guess for me I look to myself to make me happy... I never looked at my guy as someone that will make me happy.. I looked at him as someone that will enrich my life as I hope to do his.




The only one that can answer this question with any objectivity is you and only you. Decide what you want and go for it.

I know what I was looking for when I came out and got way more than I could have dreamed possible..

Welcome to the site and good luck in your search

The first thing you need to realize...only you can make yourself happy. No man is going to come in your life and make everything good. You are young and when you grow up you will realize YOU DON'T NEED A MAN...YOU WOULD LIKE ONE TO ENHANCE YOUR LIFE.

welcome to the zoo
best wishes on your hunt

I'm not saying I need a man to make me happy, I get lonely And would like to go out and enjoy fun things together. Last guy I was with, always stayed home, there was noooo fun at all, even the sex wasn't fun lol I want adventure and creativeness with someone that can actually brighten my day :)

Yeah idk how to fix the 31, that's why I keep repeating that I'm 23. Lol

Go to your profile and edit it...you can change it there

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I want to win the Powerball.
Will you accept a man in exchange for a Powerball jackpot?
I can rent a U-haul and go to the corner outside of home depot and fill it up with viable candidates if that's an incentive.


That's a pretty open range.
Are we talking 30's? 40's? 50's? 90's?
Can they live in a retirement home?
What if they live in a retirement home with their mother, but have steady employment at wal-mart and can get the dial a ride bus anytime they want, even after 6 p.m.?


What exactly does that mean?
Let's say someone falls in love, as they understand and feel it, with you within the first month/6months/whatever, but you don't feel it.
If they express how they feel honestly, even though you don't reciprocate the feeling...is that rushing things?
Is them expressing themselves interpreted as pressure by you?
Do you know the difference between someone expressing themselves to express who they are and how they truly feel vs. some just blowing smoke as a means to try and get something from you?

Do they have to wait until you feel the same way before expressing themselves in order for you to feel comfortable in the "progress" of the relationship and that it's not rushing things?

Or is it just about the sex thing?
Like if they express a desire to have sex in a natural and normal way (e.g. touching, fondling, kissing attempts, physical contact and closeness) is it considered "rushing" things if you don't want to?
Do you make yourself directly and absolutely understood regarding your boundaries and when they are allowed to try?
If you are ready to progress to the sexual aspect of a relationship, but they're not, do you assume they aren't "really" interested?
If they have a lot of stress and insecurity trying to figure out the right time and how you feel, do you pick that up as mixed messages or weakness on their part, of not being a "real" man?


I read this a lot.
In my experience it almost always translates to "I am afraid of being used for sex. And I want a relationship. So instead of allowing you to use me for sex, I am going to use you for a relationship for a while before I even allow you into any kind of proximity to even attempt any kind of physical intimacy or contact."

...Do you let them know when you've "gotten to know" them enough?
Do you believe there is ever a point in a relationship where you stop learning who they are, or figuring out how you were wrong about them before but are gaining insight into them?

Do you make it at all easy on them by giving them an idea of what exactly you wish to know about them?

If not, do you feel that "getting to know them" is just another way of saying "tell me an entertaining story, and if I like it I'll keep talking to you?"


Have you ever met someone that confessed to wanting someone that didn't?


I don't know.
Maybe you don't realize that what you are asking for isn't all that clear?


Do you provide that in your life to yourself?
I mean if a guy is adventurous and creative and tries to brighten the days of others do you feel you can match him?
Or are you just looking for something you don't have in order to push you to be something you aren't? Like you feel something is missing and you want them to provide something for you, as opposed to someone that is like you?

And what are the tolerances of that?
What kind of adventures? I knew a guy that used to go out on saturday nights and park in dangerous neighborhoods waiting for someone to try to start something so he could justifiably shoot them. That was adventurous to him. Gave him a rush.
Some adventurers are just adrenaline junkies.

What kind of creativity? Some people are just as creative as rain man on LSD. To some they appear to be buckets o crazy. To others they are "creative." What do you find is creative?

And if they brighten your day...do you care if they brighten the days of everyone else? Including all the women you see him with?
Oh no, he's not flirting dangerously with them...that's just his "personality" and he's friendly and gregarious with all the other hot chicks.
Is that ok?


Personally, I think you should really look at what you are asking for and why. Maybe that will help you flesh it out a bit?

Welcome and good luck...yes it is possible....

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