Ever been on a first date 9(at a restaurant) that was so bad that within the first ten minutes you wanted to scream "Check Please"!

Yes... I usually plan a quick meet and greet so if it is going south I can get out of there. It can be a cup of coffee, drink, whatever...

I met a guy one time, at a local sports bar to catch a game.. I was sitting there just had ordered an ice tea when I saw a bug crawl across the table. I was so making excuses and leaving..

What was bad he didn't seem to think anything about it.. But this girl can't handle bugs.. nope not going to happen..

He turned into a great friend and we still laugh about it.

Yes. I was late & my date wasn't pleased.

I sure have, but look at me...I ain't leaving until I've had dessert!

Doesn't even have to be a date,once the service is poor,like your business is unappreciated,first hint of that ,I'm ready to LEAVE!!

That sums up about 80-90% of my dates
Once saw the guy sitting at the table and already knew it wasn't gonna work. I considered to just turn around and leave, but yeah.. that would've been a rather rude thing to do.

No. I only go to places with class

As for my "date",yeah,showed up with a fkn friend! ,didn't leave though!

No, no one has ever made me want to act like a child having a tantrum, to scream and run away, in a restaurant.

I know that the person sitting across from me isn't an extension of my ego. Any beliefs, or behavior, on their part is a reflection of them, any argument only lasts as long as I'm willing to participate, and my equanimity is my own responsibility...that's always helped.

I've had that happen to me a few times lol

Dude....you probably have six pack abs and bench press 350lbs.

I have one single ab...and I have no choice but to press that kind of poundage every time I rise from the prone position.

It's either that or the murder stare.

I thought men loved your murder stare?

Oh I have no doubt, that's when you turn to the bartender and order a morphine and soda.

oh it's happened on a few occasions when I have walked in and he does not look like his picture on his profile..
but have given him benefit of doubt and sat down
thinking I got my own car in case I need to make an excuse and escape


then you scan the menu for something they can fix quick
skip appetizers and skip alcohol cause ya know you gonna cut this thing short

and then you sit there and stare at him as he drones on and on and on and on
about his job, his dog, his kids, his ex wife, the last three women he has dated, the tv shows he likes to watch and you think..does he realize he is talking with a mouth full of food..or man his laugh is obnoxious..

for crying out loud man..take a breath once in awhile


what is that a stain on that shirt and has he heard of an iron

almost every .. meet and greet...
. I go on..... if you ain't got it..then I don't want it..... sure sure I'll stick around for a drink... but then I have to get to my next meet and greet...