This ^^^ is waaaay too true.

Hey dude i know what crap you going through & i'll tell you the facts traight up.

That girl is simply f***ed up. At 18 she is certainly not looking to get tied down in a relationship with her hormones & partying loving ect.

She was basically using you for her comfort...she possibly could have been cheating but also had you to bounce back on. You better be glad its over now or you would have been goin through emotional torture & she knows you & triggers you to insult her ect so a fight ensues & u both dont talk allowing her to do her s h i t.
She knows you care about her & maybe have deep feelings for her & she can mess you around as she pleases.

She is not someone you can base a solid relationship with & it will take years when she becomes a real woman (if ever)
Dont text her or try to reach her or even think of her.
Delete her no. & stay away unless you want to cry in the end.
I assure you buddy one day you might realize i am spot on 100% about this .
Dont be naive with her & get a woman that appreciates u the way you are.

I can relate to this....my ex also broke up with me through chat(we lived together for 3years) & i was out of the country at the time.
She was 30 but still frisky & also told me she had fun with me & it was nice & over & blocked me too. One can only know the pain when u go through it yourself so i feel you.

I would advise you to get your act together & stay away from her....its best for you...she doesnt care & has been playing you no matter how many intimate special moments you had it was a game to her...

Be strong & get a real female....not a ****

but look another thing , a few months ago she thought she was maybe pregnant (yes we had unprotected sex) she did not want to take th emorning after pill because it would make her gain weight so if she was pregnant she would get an abortion that was the deal we both agreed it was way too early for a baby , some time later she says that shes hesitating about getting an abortion because she would go straight to hell because it's a very bad sin i was not happy about her change of mind but i said ok if you want to keep the baby ok but i will stop school and work fulltime for a better future for our child , but she said no i dont want you to raise our child i will raise it myself you can go on with school and your life i will take care of it , but i said no if you are really pregnant i accept the responsability as a father she kept on saying that eventho its our child that i would have no right to see the baby after a long talk she admitted she was wrong and cried about it how wrong it was and apologised , i also heard a story from her ex boyfriend that he needed to stalk her to make sure she wasnt pregnant and keeping the baby for herself , so what i really think is that she has a mental problem and needs some help

If her fun & excitement has chilled out a little & theres no comfort she might contact you & try to maybe remind you of your moments & say she misses u ect.
DO NOT fall for this.

Well You have been given some great advice in here.
Honestly she is she and you are you.. Neither one of you can be what the other wants...

You say you were insulting her and that was wrong you are right it was that is one hand, the other hand is she knew what buttons to push to get the argument to that point so then you would break up...Have you ever wondered what she was doing during these break ups..

This last one just sounds planned.. I mean who tells their BF I am horny... oh baby... Yes I want to get laid and then five minutes later says I am going out for drinks with a crowd.. Doesn't matter if it was a crowd of girls or coed dangerous situation... So instead it goes to the point she breaks up with you and NOW PRESTO... she is single she can do what she wants to do...pfft

I am willing to bet after vacation and reality sets in she will be back asking for another chance.. Really do you want it who knows where it has been.. I don't know in your world what that is called but in my world it is called sloppy seconds. Nope not going there...


Cut the ties walk away... hurt, heal and find someone that deserves you and you deserve.

This is way too much drama from the beginning to the end.. Think about this last thought would you really want to be doing the same thing 10 years from now.. Trust me if you choose to open the door and walk back into her life that is exactly what it will be

Best wishes.

I didn't have to go any further than the 'I'm pregnant' bit.

For what it's worth, you shouldn't have to, either.

If she is pregnant you have the right to get a paternity test. If the child is yours you have rights. Period. I wouldn't stay in a relationship with her because of that though.

Yes she could have a mental problem or she could be doing drugs again.
Do you know her friends? What Type of friends does she Hang out with coz it can say a lot about a person

look everything went well until she went on vacation there she changed she's not the same anymore back in belgium she wasnt really social she would always stay at home or come to me never go out drinking , partying none of that , she only had 1 bestfriend awhere she also had a lesbian relation with she was also very cllose with her younger brother and mum to give you an idea when she would shave her vagina she would show it to her mum to ask her what she thinks about it yea crazy right haha , she was really really in love with me kept taking pictures of me without me even knowing it , her father wanted her to marry her ex who is an engineer but she wanted me and many other sign and actions that really showed to me that she loved me until she went on vacation

and she wasnt pregnant after all she got her period im actually trying to kind of figure out her psychology , another thing th elast night before she left on vacation whe had intercourse during her period and told me that i could *** inside because she would not get pregnant , i recently just found out that you CAN get pregnat during your period so i really hop eshe isn't pregnant and keeping the baby to herself but i doubt it

Yes thats all good mate but face the ugly reality that you are not that guy to her anymore & shes already replaced you.....as harsh as it sounds its the truth

the one friend she has is kind of like her but she has a boyfriend in algeria her first love and she cant let go of him they have a distant relationship and she is still a virgin altho she takes it up the arse

im serious im not playing around , shes messed up but i don't know it never really bothered me even when i wasnt in a relationship with her yet everybody is making conclusions and stuff but all my friends say that they dont know shes too weird to figure out

Sounds complicated,at best.
I hope your heart finds peace.

i really dont know if she cheated on me because really she had alot of boy srunning after her an dwhy wait until shes in spain she sleeps in th esame bedroom with her mother at the hotel 2 days ago she was complaining about that she could not masturbate because she was in the same room with her mum and that's what made her horny all the time , she told me to get rid of me that she cheated on me that its not e but it sher and to leave her an dthen her last msg to me was ; look i didnt cheat on you i just wanted you to leave me , i realised that we dont fit bla bla ..i already wrote this

yes it's complicated im just mindfucked she just broke up with me thru text whilst on vacation i don't get it her mum liked me her brother liked me im just lost

You need to keep in mind if you keep telling her personal business on the World Wild Web you could be subjecting her to arrest or even an an Honor Killing in her country. Her Dad or brother's, cousins, Uncles are not likely going to take well to the idea of you making her out to be how you have. Besides getting her stoned to death they could have you killed. and or her female friend. The whole world does not play by your rules.

i kept her anonymous and her father isnt violent at all im just trying to figure out whats wrong and giving details might help that's it

im not sharing nudes or anything im just confused she left me in a questioning-sate