That ... plus ... I don't read replies from ppl who don't read replies ...

Oh Gee ... I expected more the so called 'nice guys' would have been all over this...

Dang it...

What? I'm not nice enough for ya?

But You my theory of Nice Guys.. and I can't blast you... dang it..

.. where's the fun in being nice..
.the problem with being a nice guy..

. is once you become a bad guy..
even for a minute.. everybody jumps all over you.. he was so nice�! now he's just a prick...lol...
. but if you're a bad guy..
everybody expects you to be a prick..
. so when you're nice!.. they're all shocked... and start to think maybe he is a nice guy...... and you can be a nice guy for a little while... and when you go back to being a prick.. nobody is really shocked by that...

.. but a nice guy.. the tries to be a bad guy... once he is labeled a prick.... they will always think deep down.. Of that time you were a prick....

... and in case you .. didn't recognize me I'm no 1 PhD..... I'm just saying because I noticed I didn't make your list.... on who did you see first...lmao..


..lol


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Sooo, what's the difference, then? What's a 'real man' do that a nice guy wouldn't? Or vice-versa?

Ok You are right I think for a lot of us women.. We all date that bad guy at least once in our lives. I was stupid enough to marry one.. {second and short marriage}.
Then we realize we know the guy that has to tell us they are nice are just a whining azz that is going to whine, and screech over everything that doesn't go their way.. So we don't want one of those either..

We want the guy that is stand up and says I do the best I can each day and You know What I am going to screw up and make mistakes but I will do the best I can...

I feel the same about the women that come out and say I am a nice girl..

Really I believe a few things so strongly
if you are a nice person it will show...you don't have to shout it from the roof tops

if you are smart people will know don't have to say anything.

if you have class it shows...

Don't have to do any heavy advertising it is just there.

*Paints over the sandwich board proclaiming 'I'm a nice guy' that I'd planned to parade around town wearing*

Hmmmm, Plan B, plan b...

not sure you could call that actually mingling on ..uh mingle

smart azz galore baby

Being too nice all the time is bad.
If you're too nice ALL the time, people will walk over you and manipulate you easily.
I'm not the sort of person to let people walk all over. I'm not someone who puts up with bull ****.
I say what I think and feel.
I don't care if people hate me for my honesty.
I don't wake up every day to impress people.
I would rather be honest than impressive.
I honestly don't care about what people say or think of me here.
I'm not here to make people like me.
Being honest may not get you a lot of friends but it'll always get you the right ones.
I'm glad that I have friends who respect me for being me.
"Go ahead, judge me! Just remember to be perfect for the rest of your life!"

funny thing is ..most don't realize
someone who turns out to be a hard azz with low tolerance for BS

usually started out as a really nice person

Just passing through.
Scuse me
Pardon me
Just need to get to the exit over there.

...or not?

Oh come on man. Stay a while. I think WonderWoman is about to tell us how she really feels.

there is a difference between being a nice guy
and being a door mat and letting a woman walk all over ya

Thanks maybe later

oo

Theodore Robert Bundy, was a
self proclaimed "nice guy".
Ted Bundy the serial killer.

Gary Ridgway, another self proclaimed
" nice guy".

Yup!
What self respecting man,
wouldn't wanna identify with that?

Chicken... *snicker*...