Topic: R u ok to be a surrogate mother??
prithvii1989's photo
Wed 05/06/15 07:19 AM
If someone close to you wants you to carry his baby. Will u go for it.?


stephM88's photo
Wed 05/06/15 08:22 AM
yes i would

ive already told my close mate who cant have children that if she wants me to carry her baby i will do.


SitkaRains's photo
Wed 05/06/15 08:30 AM
I commend people that can and do...My sister actually did this for a close friend and husband.

I know for me there would be no way I could part with the child at the end
So I know for me the answer would regretfully be a NO

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 05/06/15 08:57 AM
Only way I could have if needed would have been for one of my kids. If they could not have kids on their own.... Other wise I just don't think I could and turn it over to someone else after caring a child..

I commend others that do it for couples that can not caring a child. Just not something I could do unless it was for my own kids...

prithvii1989's photo
Wed 05/06/15 11:17 AM

yes i would

ive already told my close mate who cant have children that if she wants me to carry her baby i will do.


keeping that baby inside you for 9 months will not make you affectinate about the baby?? U might get emotinally attached to baby. Then how will u handle it.

prithvii1989's photo
Wed 05/06/15 11:19 AM
I can understand its not that easy for everyone to carry baby for 9 months and then give it to someone else. I want to have a baby through surrogacy thats why i wanted your opinions.

prithvii1989's photo
Wed 05/06/15 11:21 AM

Only way I could have if needed would have been for one of my kids. If they could not have kids on their own.... Other wise I just don't think I could and turn it over to someone else after caring a child..

I commend others that do it for couples that can not caring a child. Just not something I could do unless it was for my own kids...
you can do it for your kids but why cant for others. Just asking. Is it due to emotional attachments or some other reason??

no photo
Wed 05/06/15 12:42 PM

I can understand its not that easy for everyone to carry baby for 9 months and then give it to someone else. I want to have a baby through surrogacy thats why i wanted your opinions.


whys that? flowerforyou

prithvii1989's photo
Wed 05/06/15 12:45 PM


I can understand its not that easy for everyone to carry baby for 9 months and then give it to someone else. I want to have a baby through surrogacy thats why i wanted your opinions.


whys that? flowerforyou
i dnt want to marry anyone. But my parents want a heir so i had this option left only for me.

no photo
Wed 05/06/15 12:50 PM

If someone close to you wants you to carry his baby. Will u go for it.?




rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

Oh hell no , if a WOMAN (natural woman) can NOT have a child, no matter which one (natural- man or woman) is infertile. Oh well.
Not meant to be.


*Dramatic Music* smokin

TMommy's photo
Wed 05/06/15 03:28 PM
still capable of getting preggers? yes but I don't think I would ever be able to do this


love those babies I have too much happy

no1phD's photo
Wed 05/06/15 03:38 PM

yes i would

ive already told my close mate who cant have children that if she wants me to carry her baby i will do.


..ahhhh... would you be willing to carry my baby...... just a thought..lol..jk

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 05/12/15 07:26 AM


Only way I could have if needed would have been for one of my kids. If they could not have kids on their own.... Other wise I just don't think I could and turn it over to someone else after caring a child..

I commend others that do it for couples that can not caring a child. Just not something I could do unless it was for my own kids...
you can do it for your kids but why cant for others. Just asking. Is it due to emotional attachments or some other reason??


Humm pretty obvious I'm not one that could carry a baby for nine months hand it over to someone else and walk away.. Just not something I could do emotional...


SitkaRains's photo
Tue 05/12/15 07:29 AM



I can understand its not that easy for everyone to carry baby for 9 months and then give it to someone else. I want to have a baby through surrogacy thats why i wanted your opinions.


whys that? flowerforyou
i dnt want to marry anyone. But my parents want a heir so i had this option left only for me.
I have to ask sorry

So you really don't want the child you want to please your parents by giving them an heir?
I think that ranks right up there in the top ten of why NOT to bring a child into this world.. spock

no photo
Tue 05/12/15 07:42 AM




I can understand its not that easy for everyone to carry baby for 9 months and then give it to someone else. I want to have a baby through surrogacy thats why i wanted your opinions.


whys that? flowerforyou
i dnt want to marry anyone. But my parents want a heir so i had this option left only for me.
I have to ask sorry

So you really don't want the child you want to please your parents by giving them an heir?
I think that ranks right up there in the top ten of why NOT to bring a child into this world.. spock


archaic...but this sentiment still exists...in conservative asian families...sons are still preferred..to be able to carry the family name...
if the wife is unable to bear children...she is not too well received by the in-laws...sometimes, other options are considered...

no photo
Tue 05/12/15 09:18 AM
Edited by SassyEuro2 on Tue 05/12/15 09:19 AM





I can understand its not that easy for everyone to carry baby for 9 months and then give it to someone else. I want to have a baby through surrogacy thats why i wanted your opinions.


whys that? flowerforyou
i dnt want to marry anyone. But my parents want a heir so i had this option left only for me.
I have to ask sorry

So you really don't want the child you want to please your parents by giving them an heir?
I think that ranks right up there in the top ten of why NOT to bring a child into this world.. spock


archaic...but this sentiment still exists...in conservative asian families...sons are still preferred..to be able to carry the family name...
if the wife is unable to bear children...she is not too well received by the in-laws...sometimes, other options are considered...


Humm... like making their SON get a sperm count? Checking out how fast the swimmers are & if he has more FEMALE sperm than male , like his father?
Those options? :wink:


SitkaRains's photo
Tue 05/12/15 09:20 AM





I can understand its not that easy for everyone to carry baby for 9 months and then give it to someone else. I want to have a baby through surrogacy thats why i wanted your opinions.


whys that? flowerforyou
i dnt want to marry anyone. But my parents want a heir so i had this option left only for me.
I have to ask sorry

So you really don't want the child you want to please your parents by giving them an heir?
I think that ranks right up there in the top ten of why NOT to bring a child into this world.. spock


archaic...but this sentiment still exists...in conservative asian families...sons are still preferred..to be able to carry the family name...
if the wife is unable to bear children...she is not too well received by the in-laws...sometimes, other options are considered...


Thank you for sharing Pansy... I guess I didn't think about that from a different cultural view.

prithvii1989's photo
Tue 05/12/15 10:23 AM





I can understand its not that easy for everyone to carry baby for 9 months and then give it to someone else. I want to have a baby through surrogacy thats why i wanted your opinions.


whys that? flowerforyou
i dnt want to marry anyone. But my parents want a heir so i had this option left only for me.
I have to ask sorry

So you really don't want the child you want to please your parents by giving them an heir?
I think that ranks right up there in the top ten of why NOT to bring a child into this world.. spock


archaic...but this sentiment still exists...in conservative asian families...sons are still preferred..to be able to carry the family name...
if the wife is unable to bear children...she is not too well received by the in-laws...sometimes, other options are considered...


its not about son or daughter..my parents want a child..they want to live the memories of my childhood again with my kids.thats all they want.

prithvii1989's photo
Tue 05/12/15 10:26 AM




I can understand its not that easy for everyone to carry baby for 9 months and then give it to someone else. I want to have a baby through surrogacy thats why i wanted your opinions.


whys that? flowerforyou
i dnt want to marry anyone. But my parents want a heir so i had this option left only for me.
I have to ask sorry

So you really don't want the child you want to please your parents by giving them an heir?
I think that ranks right up there in the top ten of why NOT to bring a child into this world.. spock


no its not that i guess i was not clear before. i really want to be a father..i want to see my kids and feel proud of them...but i dnt want a wife...may be because i think i will not be a good husband.

SitkaRains's photo
Tue 05/12/15 11:12 AM





I can understand its not that easy for everyone to carry baby for 9 months and then give it to someone else. I want to have a baby through surrogacy thats why i wanted your opinions.


whys that? flowerforyou
i dnt want to marry anyone. But my parents want a heir so i had this option left only for me.
I have to ask sorry

So you really don't want the child you want to please your parents by giving them an heir?
I think that ranks right up there in the top ten of why NOT to bring a child into this world.. spock


no its not that i guess i was not clear before. i really want to be a father..i want to see my kids and feel proud of them...but i dnt want a wife...may be because i think i will not be a good husband.
if you can't be a good husband how do you think you can be a good father... Not trying to pick just want to get a clearer picture