Well every girl dream of finding the love of her life,her dream wedding and a happy ever after life.
But after my first love disaster everything is changed.I dnt trust anyone,i became mysterious,scared to let anyone in my life.
Its like he wnt love you enough,just playing.No one is true.
Sometimes i think like do i ever find the love of my life?do i ever fall in love again?Does that fairy love exist?

seriously some of the questions on here.am not mystic meg how can we know lmao?if we knew the answer none of us would be single

I know those are unanswered questions,im just sharing
sometimes letting the things out of your mind that bothering you gives a little relif

some questions asked on here cannot be answered because we are not mind readers.who can say who gonna fall in love again?its up to destiny.if u do u do if not hey nothing lost

I think that as time goes by and old wounds scab over
you can at least open yourself up to the possibility of love again
does that mean he will walk into your life? maybe
does that mean you won't have to sift thru a few that don't fit the bill first? maybe

but at least you have the hope of finding him again

Typically, it'll probably happen on a day when you don't feel like going anywhere, and when you're not looking, and when you look like crap ;)

Well, you've built up a wall so unless you allow yourself to try, then No....you won't find love (or love won't find you). News flash....everybody gets hurt (or has been hurt) from relationships. Think of it this way....if you give up after one, or a few failed attempts then how will you ever know your full potential?

There is a reason the heart is a resilient muscle. Over a life time it is going to get a work out both physically and emotionally. For the record you are quite likely to have several great loves acroos your lifetime and your heart will be able to handle more than you think in a sad moment. .

Fairy love do exist.

If that's what every girl does, why don't you want to be different?
Forge your own path.
Pick up a lighter and set things on fire, cuz baby you're a firework!


Nothing has changed.
You're still you.
Loving someone and having it end doesn't mean you actually lose anything.
Seriously. Did you weigh yourself before the relationship and after?
Accounting for diet and exercise you're still the same.


Why should you?
Go ahead and don't trust people.
Trust comes OUT of a relationship.
You don't trust someone....and THEN build a relationship with them.
All you have to do is set things up so it doesn't matter if you trust them or not.
Meet in public. Don't have him pick you up. Work through email. Don't do anything you are uncomfortable with.
That's how you start a relationship.
A relationship begins as soon as you say "hi" to someone.

Although, IME, a lot of people that say "I dnt trust anyone" really mean "no one will just give me complete control over every and all things and make me, my comfort, my life, their sole purpose for living while not asking anything in return, plus will just go away and wait until I want them around again!"


You just let pretty much everyone on the internet into your life.
So, this is bs posturing at best.
At best you are scared you can't control everything and life isn't easy.


So what if he is?
Does his behavior reflect on who he is or you are?
Do you think you "lose the game" if you get played?
Do you think you are stupid or a failure if you don't get everything perfect and good the very first time you try anything?


If you truly want to.
Unfortunately, some people tend to define love as something that magically drops into their life all complete offering no insecurities or hardships.


Personally, I would question if you really fell in love or just became infatuated in a relationship and with the idea of love.


If fairies exist I am sure fairy love exists.
I think that kind of love is illegal in Tennessee though.

put his arms around the op.. now now.. let it all out... they're they're just put your head against my chest..now doesn't that feel better..
Shhh.. just let it all out.... starts to run his hands up and down your back...mmm... that's right just relax..
.. tell the PhD all about it.... as his hands started going lower... ..... that's okay we're all friends here... just let it all out... ...jk

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oh yeah I almost forgot... sure you'll fall in love again.... now just push your head a little harder into my chest.. there there..lol..

I guess the fault lies within ourselves. We are always looking at others to complete us. The basic human tendency is to try and look for a perfect match for oneself. The key lies to not try and push it too hard and be happy in ur own skin.Time is the biggest problem solver. Things do always work out but at the right time and at the right place. Have faith :)

Can only speak for myself,so lets just say that I'm MUCH MORE cautious about letting anyone near muh again,felt the pain before,but the lessons were well worth it!

Im 100% sure you'll fall in love again

I think we all get cautious. Hopefully there is someone out there that you will let your guard down to. Best wishes to you.

Same happens with me :(

well my " crazy 8 ball" show the answer as.. NO..

left or right ball?