it's all about the bass...
I would post the YouTube video for you... but I had to factory reset my phone.... so maybe somebody else will be nice enough..hmmm..

.. thank you in advance if you choose to do so.... it can't always be about the looks.....ok.. I'm such a bad liar..

"there are some that like that 12 year old prepubescent boy look on a woman
very thin : size 0 or 2 with no curves.. "
or, "It's like making love to an Erector Set..." Yada-yada-yada.
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Some of us, 5'10"/116 lbs [size 0-2] actually do have this body build & it's not pleasant to be mistakenly addressed as, "Sir or Dude" if someone should be trying to get my attention from certain visual perspectives;} *sighs* Everyone's built differently; "Beauty" is, still in the subjective eye of the beholder. Personally, I abhor the media/fashion-pressured definition of "Beauty" that includes an emphasis on any one particular body-shape &/or age bracket. It's misleading & bogus but unfortunately women, themselves must stop buying into that garbage by not purchasing the publications that perpetuate that nonsense & speaking-out against it.

"Trouble[s] with relationships have got-Nothing to "Body-Build"[wish it were that easy]. Everyone has troubles with first, finding a relationship than more troubles in maintaining that relationship. It's not easy, takes time & effort with no guarantees given that everything will work out. Guess it could all boil down to stumbling into another individual who is-or seems, worth all the effort.

I feel so used.

awesome! you have found the root cause of why you think the way you do. just keep in mind that you only think you can't have a man to love you, because that is just a thought, not reality. now let's move on to what to do about it, because you do have options

do you want a man to love you because of the way your body looks? then find a zumba class, start walking, get some kind of exercise somehow. change your eating habits. just get proactive somehow to change into the shape you think would get a man to love you

do you want a man to love you for who you are, not what you look like? then forget the negative attitude and show the world what a happy person you are. the community forums here could be a starting point for you to interact with people and get a new outlook on life

floresville is a short motorcycle ride from san antonio. i reckon if you look a bit you'll find someone willing to ride to floresville and spend some time with you

There are many thin women on here and out in the world that are unloved by a man. Or even worse, getting used, reused, and abused by the man that says he loves them.

Question: why would a man date an overweight woman but predetermine that he will not love her because of her figure?

Think about it.

And if it was the BullDog you would be one very lucky person!!!

He is right when it comes to how men perceive you it is your own self perception that sets the tone. Even if you are and old grey head fat broad like me but you smile and like people they will still be glad for your company because they feel important and know they will enjoy whatever they do with you.

I did everything in the thing called love, I've been loyal and trust him. But still he broke my heart..

I once dated a man who had bad teeth. He'd been badly beaten up by a guy who was on the opposite football team. Didn't put me off, as he was quite a sweet person. Looking good isn't all it's cracked up to be.

'Awesome' OMG!

Every time someone calls me fat I get so depressed, I cut myself... a piece of cake.

Don't get so down on yourself . I've had boyfriends who had really bad teeth. They were clean. They were just a bit of a state. They were really nice people, and they drew me in. Maybe try wearing some pretty Maxi dresses. They look good on most women. You are the only one putting yourself down. It's in your head. And even if someone DOES have a problem with your weight, don't listen to their silly opinion. They should just turn the other way then. You are you. Who are they to say what you should look like? Nothing more annoying as vein people.

Correct Presentation: 'Vain' people ('Vain' - Proud, Snobbish)

Nice Post. Keep Smiling!

You look beautiful.
Have faith in yourself!
Good luck in your search!

Dear Men! If you don't look like Calvin Klein models, don't expect us to look like Victoria's Secret Angels.

more men than most love waking up to someone cuddly and warm. love yourself and others will love you.

'Lovely' Post!

Now I know why you were never interested...


OP we women come in all sizes, shapes, etc... I am more on the thin side my BFF is a large woman and when we both were single and shopping for men. She had more men drooling after her than I ever have. It is the way you carry yourself... If you believe in yourself then they will also..

Body size is about the last thing most people are shopping for..Body size can be changed but ugly goes bone deep.. No changing that one..

Good luck out here.

Dear Men!
If you don't look like an abercrombie model, then don't expect me to look like Barbie.

Its not about luck at all. Maybe u x meet ur Mr.right yet.