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Topic: how do i win her heart?
whytepawn's photo
Tue 04/28/15 02:30 PM
guys I need your help. there is this really sweet and God fearing young lady who has captivated my heart. my challenge is getting to let her know how much i cherish and admire her. I have tried on several occasions to let her know what she mean to me but it Seems she is not into me emotionally...... how should I go about this uphill task?

soufiehere's photo
Tue 04/28/15 02:32 PM

..how should I go about this uphill task?

Push her downhill.
When she lands, her outlook might have improved?

JustScribbles's photo
Tue 04/28/15 02:37 PM
Stop letting her know what she means to you and start thinkin' about what you might mean to her. Just sayin'...

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 04/28/15 02:38 PM
You don't. If she's not into you, she's not into you. Can't make someone love or want to be with you

Annierooroo's photo
Tue 04/28/15 02:41 PM
To be honest Why, she might not like you in the way you want her to. That is one aspect or God fearing people are switch on with God and that is their focus. If it is of God then He will real it to her.
As you have said you have told her how you feel. You need to give her space to pray and wait for an answer from God.

Rock's photo
Tue 04/28/15 02:41 PM
Seems, she isn't worth the effort.

Find someone who is.

Awatersign's photo
Tue 04/28/15 02:47 PM


..how should I go about this uphill task?

Push her downhill.
When she lands, her outlook might have improved?
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Awatersign's photo
Tue 04/28/15 02:49 PM

Stop letting her know what she means to you and start thinkin' about what you might mean to her. Just sayin'...
I Couldn't agree with this more !:thumbsup:

whytepawn's photo
Tue 04/28/15 02:50 PM


..how should I go about this uphill task?

Push her downhill.
When she lands, her outlook might have improved?

Lol..funny you.

whytepawn's photo
Tue 04/28/15 02:52 PM

Stop letting her know what she means to you and start thinkin' about what you might mean to her. Just sayin'...

Thank you so very much. that is an angle i haven't really given much of a thought.

whytepawn's photo
Tue 04/28/15 02:53 PM

To be honest Why, she might not like you in the way you want her to. That is one aspect or God fearing people are switch on with God and that is their focus. If it is of God then He will real it to her.
As you have said you have told her how you feel. You need to give her space to pray and wait for an answer from God.

Okay... fair enough.

whytepawn's photo
Tue 04/28/15 02:56 PM

You don't. If she's not into you, she's not into you. Can't make someone love or want to be with you

what about persistence... I thought ladies dig that in guys?

Annierooroo's photo
Tue 04/28/15 02:59 PM
Edited by Annierooroo on Tue 04/28/15 03:00 PM
My friends and I hate it. It makes you sound desperate and needy.

no photo
Tue 04/28/15 03:00 PM
how should I go about this uphill task?

Ask her on a date and begin the "learning to communicate" process?

If she says "no" then respect her decision?

Otherwise you are asking "can a stalker get their victim to change their mind?"

Godistheanswer's photo
Tue 04/28/15 03:02 PM
take the time to get to know her, ask her about things and herself and if you can, sned her a flower and tell her how special she is and if she likes you good, if not, save your love for another

Godistheanswer's photo
Tue 04/28/15 03:03 PM
be humble and strong and loving maybe write her a poem?

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 04/28/15 03:04 PM


You don't. If she's not into you, she's not into you. Can't make someone love or want to be with you

what about persistence... I thought ladies dig that in guys?


If a woman has said she doesn't feel the same, respect it. Persistence in this case would be annoying, reek of desperation and even stalkerish. I wouldn't dig it. I would get mad

salsaforlove's photo
Tue 04/28/15 03:06 PM
Be God-fearing yourself,quote passages from the scriptures to her everyday and always say a prayer for her. She should have a change of heart otherwise the road to her heart is very long.

TMommy's photo
Tue 04/28/15 03:09 PM
If I were you I would state your case directly
"I am interested in you and I would like to take you out"

then walk away and let her decide

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 04/28/15 03:11 PM

I have tried on several occasions to let her know what she mean to me but it Seems she is not into me emotionally......


Since you said you have tried several times and she isn't having it....let go.

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