yeh lol.this one hasn't got back to me.if someone says where u from u answer right away been about an hour now lmao n nothing.

You must have made him think,obviously a traumatic experience lol

Well I'm in Glasgow, but I'll be in Dundee, in about 2 and a half hours? Well me and my older boy are off to price up a job, but I'll be a Glasgow guy again about 6pm! ha ha

can ya grab us a Dundee cake while yer there

Plenty of West African scammers on here.
Beware of Romance Dating Scams.

yep been dealing with em for years.am amazed they still going tbh.everyone knows what they are and their lines etc

You can get them in Tesco's and Asda's? Well the Scottish ones sell them anyway!

tsk tsk cheapskate

This happens to guys as well. I've had a couple African women send messages. When you reply, the conversation takes about 5 minutes to get to the point where she wants to come and visit so she can move in with you and be the girlfriend.

Yeah, that won't be happening. Kind of a long commute from Canada for dinner and a movie.

Ok, I'll get you one from Marks and Spencers, or Waitrose, then? ha ha

thankyou we can all share

I know it happens to everyone.trick is to be 10 streets ahead of em never believe owt and send em off with a flea in their ear

I got a good one few weeks back.he sent one msg saying he loved me and marry me.i said ok u get to uk under yer own steam get a legal stay then u pay for the entire wedding dress reception rings the works.then u pay for a 2 week honeymoon.never heard from him again.

Once a "woman" claimed to be living in a rather small community in northeastern Oklahoma.
Apparently, "she" didn't expect anyone here to actually know anything about that community.
Well, I did, and so I asked her a few questions about the community.
Shortly afterwards, she changed her location to a large city in California.

haha they really need to do their research

I don't know why you even bother to stress yourself out with the details of profiles that are not in your own country.


Delete.

Next.

i've been reporting them as scammers... if they give you a phone # and want to text, google the number and it will tell you if it's a landline or a cell phone... landline means liar...

they say they are in uk and give various cities so when they first message they polite etc and actually tell me they are in uk.obviously truth will out.and it does.am not stressed just saying I hate lies and elading uk folks on thinking somoneone they might wanna get to know is actually in same location is well off

There's a really easy way to get around this and even harness the full potential of the power of an online profile.

Print out business cards.
Like a realtor.
Put a little thumbnail picture on it.

Use your online dating site profile as your contact info.

Then just start mailing them out, or leaving them on the doors, of random houses within the area you are willing to date.

Or give them to people you find attractive when you leave your house and do things.
Or hang outside the mens restroom at a popular club and slip them into peoples pockets.

There you go.


Nothing matters until you meet.
Lying online shouldn't elicit an emotional reaction of any degree.
Just for arguments sake let's say they were local AND not African scammers.
I can guarantee you that 99.9999999999999% of them are going to be rejected by you, reject you, not show up to a meeting, disappear right before hand.

Online, with online dating, there is really no difference between someone lying about their location and telling the truth about a drug habit.

It just doesn't matter until you start meeting offline.
Until then a person and a profile is really no different than a forum topic.
Reacting emotionally to either is ultimately pointless unless your sole purpose to coming online, dating, or participating in forums is your own selfish emotional gratification.

If that's the case, then you are getting what you really want.