I have tried it, respectfully, and if I want to get slapped maced or stunned I'll call the cops. I find most of my dates on the calendar. Fishing for dates at parks, grocery stores malls etc isn't feasible for women under say 40 or so without kids. If you don't do the bar club party scene, or those types, there's always crickets...

I tend to agree with this." A date", yes, " A sex partner " yes. Someone you would want to keep around more than 90 days or introduce to your male relatives ?.. not likely...
After all, where do men who cheat, meet these 'other women'? .
. ...everywhere.

For all women..
Steve Harvey has a book, & it is also a funny movie, " Act like a lady, think like a man " * I don't think most women can, unless they are taught to, because they have been taught not to * Great book.

My only advice would be " Go to where the men are ". Where they work, car shows etc.. Some where they are enjoying themselves. If you don't know these ' guy things'... learn it. It is preferable than just waiting for 'the right one' to just show up.IMO

Anywhere there are other people is a "good" place to pick up dates.
Grocery stores.
Weddings.
Funerals.
Home depot.
Doctors office.
AA.
Whatever.

It doesn't really matter.

If people try to pick you up at the grocery store and fail they are probably going to fail at picking you up at any other venue.

As someone else typed there is no magical pick up place, where people have magic pick up skills.


I try to manage a certain level of presentability no matter where I go.
It's simple common courtesy and social camouflage to make navigating through life easier.


I've found it's better to practice wit, thinking, and imagination at all times, just for basic conversation skills.
Pick up lines seem disrespectful. No different than spamming first contact letters on an online dating site.


Luck has nothing to do with it.
It's all motivation and ability; for conversation and to overcome fear.

Seriously, there is a different caliber and skill traits to consider in men from the grocery store compared to the Hardware store.

If the Fonz can do it.. Why not? eeeeehhhhhhh

I have dated at least a couple of times after meeting in a grocery store. Why not? I keep an open mind wherever I go.

Nothing better than thumping melons together in the fresh foods aisle with a new friend.

I don't know man if some guy came up offering to thump my melons

we gonna have a situation right there in the produce area

Baby, have you been eating your Campbell's Soup? Because, you are looking Mmm Mmm good...

I happen to live in a small town. It's hard to meet someone anywhere. Most guys are already married or in a relationship.

hey darling would ya be interested in some tube steak
I am running a special

so, i see you have met Phd ??? ..... lol lol j/k j/k

Was your dad a baker? Cuz you got a nice set of buns....

do you like breakfast food? you know eggs, pancakes, sausage?
gimme your address and I will serve it to you in bed

if I was a potato I would totally mash you



is your dad Tony the tiger? cause you look gggrrreeaaattt!!!

you must be jelly cause jam don't shake like that

wait wait one more

hahaha these are ridiculous

Do you know the difference between a hamburger and a BJ? no?
can I cook you dinner?

Google penis hamburger

Let's make like fabric softener and snuggle.....

Uh oh. That word is NOT allowed on the forums. I was told.