romance and sex aren't equals, though sex can include romance


for me, sex is about the body, but romantic and sexY are about the mind

we can stimulate each others minds without ever taking off our clothes
so, yes, a christian can be romantic,, even without sex

and as far as the sex,, those who are husband and wife, as far as I understand, are to lose control with each other

Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a limited time so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer. Afterward, you should come together again so that Satan won't be able to tempt you because of your lack of self-control.