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Topic: How Fast Or Slow
needsum12luv Joined Tue 04/07/15 Posts: 472	Mon 04/13/15 02:27 PM
In moving forward in a relationship, what governs the pace in which a relationship advances? I believe it has a lot to do with how transparent each other is being. I don't think there is any set pace, only the rate in which both partners learn about each other. The more you can learn the sooner you can decide if it is a relationship to move forward with or just remain at the current level or not pursue the relationship any further.

Argo Joined Mon 11/11/13 Posts: 12416	Mon 04/13/15 02:32 PM
if she's wearing a lockable chastity belt....it could take a considerable amount of time...

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Mon 04/13/15 02:32 PM
trick me again,,thought it was a racing forums,,,work with me people,,,

Justfun_1 Joined Tue 07/23/13 Posts: 698	Mon 04/13/15 02:36 PM
I think it's chemistry that dictates speed,the mental one rather than the physical

needsum12luv Joined Tue 04/07/15 Posts: 472	Mon 04/13/15 02:38 PM
if she's wearing a lockable chastity belt....it could take a considerable amount of time... Well then that too would depend on transparency, is it a combination or key lock

Argo Joined Mon 11/11/13 Posts: 12416	Mon 04/13/15 02:49 PM
if she's wearing a lockable chastity belt....it could take a considerable amount of time... Well then that too would depend on transparency, is it a combination or key lock i like the ones who have the combo-lock type.....bcos imma Yeggman, all the way...

Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Mon 04/13/15 02:51 PM
A very good question. It has given me something to think about. I do also think chemistry has a part in it. It also can play in the speed go but its not a race. Lol is this pretty close to a racing forum?

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 04/13/15 03:10 PM
we are supposed to learn about each other.?..ohhh...hmm... how much do I have to learn about them.?.. .. because I like it better when they're quiet.... well not totally quiet..lol

needsum12luv Joined Tue 04/07/15 Posts: 472	Mon 04/13/15 03:16 PM
A very good question. It has given me something to think about. I do also think chemistry has a part in it. It also can play in the speed go but its not a race. Lol is this pretty close to a racing forum? at age 62, in order to build a relationship and have some quality time to enjoy it, time is of the essence. Considering as many prospects I had hopes for and proved to be non fruitful, I have to commit a large portion of my time to research. I believe there is someone out there for me (hopefully the one I'm pursuing now) but they are just not easy to find. Not trying to hurry so much as I am trying to evaluate a lot of information without consuming too much time.

Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Mon 04/13/15 03:21 PM
All the best. I hope it works out for you. Enjoy the journey to your love one.

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Mon 04/13/15 03:25 PM
and always remember, the journey of that learning is where pleasant memories come from

tealbreeze Joined Sun 02/08/15 Posts: 2279	Mon 04/13/15 03:27 PM
I have zippers up the sides and buttons up the back.

Soulstarr Joined Wed 04/08/15 Posts: 5	Mon 04/13/15 03:28 PM
Needsum very awesome in your advances. But it sounds like you have a perfct answer to your question. A little late on the topic but, IMO There isn't a gadge, a milestone or set standard. When you know you know. Besides a relationship will always grow, so those advances are never ending. . Lol remember that commercial "first comes like"

Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Mon 04/13/15 03:30 PM
and always remember, the journey of that learning is where pleasant memories come from Thats true.

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Mon 04/13/15 03:55 PM
annie the hardest lesson i am forever struggling to learn is stop and smell the roses.... with someone

Quintessentially Joined Fri 02/20/15 Posts: 1382	Mon 04/13/15 04:20 PM
and always remember, the journey of that learning is where pleasant memories come from Exactly. Journey before destination.

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Mon 04/13/15 04:28 PM
we are supposed to learn about each other.?..ohhh...hmm... how much do I have to learn about them.?.. .. because I like it better when they're quiet.... well not totally quiet..lol That is all good and fine until you start cheating because essentially any woman can take her place next to you in bed.

needsum12luv Joined Tue 04/07/15 Posts: 472	Mon 04/13/15 04:49 PM
and as we speak, I found the end to another pursuit. This seems so hopeless, it doesn't matter about time anymore, I simply have none left. Without love, and certainly without hope of love, there is no meaning in life. I'm a downer folks, no body wants a downer.

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Mon 04/13/15 04:52 PM Edited by TMommy on Mon 04/13/15 04:53 PM
and as we speak, I found the end to another pursuit. This seems so hopeless, it doesn't matter about time anymore, I simply have none left. Without love, and certainly without hope of love, there is no meaning in life. I'm a downer folks, no body wants a downer. you have a choice you know spend your time moping or spend it doing things you enjoy pursuing a goal is being part of a couple the only thing you want out of life? I am sorry not moping but you know what I mean everyone gets discouraged sometimes but the trick is not to let it keep ya down

tealbreeze Joined Sun 02/08/15 Posts: 2279	Mon 04/13/15 04:53 PM
and as we speak, I found the end to another pursuit. This seems so hopeless, it doesn't matter about time anymore, I simply have none left. Without love, and certainly without hope of love, there is no meaning in life. I'm a downer folks, no body wants a downer. Even so, with time, dreams are dashed by expectations. Hope. Time...sigh. Live another day.