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Topic: How Fast Or Slow
yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Mon 04/13/15 04:53 PM
In moving forward in a relationship, what governs the pace in which a relationship advances? I believe it has a lot to do with how transparent each other is being. I don't think there is any set pace, only the rate in which both partners learn about each other. The more you can learn the sooner you can decide if it is a relationship to move forward with or just remain at the current level or not pursue the relationship any further. Hmmm never thought of it before. I go with the flow. Dated one guy that moved fast and had been friends with another guy for 3 yrs before dating

Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Mon 04/13/15 04:57 PM
annie the hardest lesson i am forever struggling to learn is stop and smell the roses.... with someone Keep going remember to do it next time. Keep thinking its not a race. You can do keep smiling

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 04/13/15 05:01 PM
we are supposed to learn about each other.?..ohhh...hmm... how much do I have to learn about them.?.. .. because I like it better when they're quiet.... well not totally quiet..lol That is all good and fine until you start cheating because essentially any woman can take her place next to you in bed.... [ quote] ..lol..noooo.. not just any woman.. .. ..lol..nooo. not just any woman..lmao.. I do have certain requirements they need to meet.....lol..... there is the question of their height .. their weight... overall fitness level.... can she jog 2 kilometers without.. passing out..lol .. then there is hair color.... hygiene levels... .. then there is..hmm.... how far over the abyss can i take her.. where can I take her...how can i take her... how often.. so on and so forth.. .. so no not just any woman .. love... . .

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Mon 04/13/15 05:06 PM
[ and always remember, the journey of that learning is where pleasant memories come from Exactly I call it building the foundation. The relationship to me is like building your home. Do you want cheap workmanship or do you want it to last? I want mine to last

needsum12luv Joined Tue 04/07/15 Posts: 472	Mon 04/13/15 05:16 PM
I am in to deep of a hole to recover. All that really doesn't matter anymore. The only thing that can save me is to escape from this isolation and feeling that I have to face everything alone and it's all too overwhelming................I CAN'T DO IT ANYMORE!!!!!!!!'

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Mon 04/13/15 05:17 PM
I am in to deep of a hole to recover. All that really doesn't matter anymore. The only thing that can save me is to escape from this isolation and feeling that I have to face everything alone and it's all too overwhelming................I CAN'T DO IT ANYMORE!!!!!!!!' I am sorry to hear that it has gotten to this point I would suggest you go in and talk to someone best of luck to you

needsum12luv Joined Tue 04/07/15 Posts: 472	Mon 04/13/15 05:22 PM
here is all I have in my life. I have no family. I have no one to hold me, hug me, kiss me, care for me. I have a home that if some miracle doesn't happen within the next 4 months I will lose it. I've sold off much of what I have just to get to this useless worthless point in my life. I'm not moping, I'm out and out in deep pain. I have nothing

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Mon 04/13/15 05:25 PM Edited by TMommy on Mon 04/13/15 05:27 PM
here is all I have in my life. I have no family. I have no one to hold me, hug me, kiss me, care for me. I have a home that if some miracle doesn't happen within the next 4 months I will lose it. I've sold off much of what I have just to get to this useless worthless point in my life. I'm not moping, I'm out and out in deep pain. I have nothing you're not going to get sympathy from me if that is what you are looking for only you know how you ended up exactly where you are I dont know your life stuff is just stuff man if it burns up in a fire if the bank gets it or it ends up in a yard sale its just stuff a house is four walls and a roof none of it defines you don't you go around in life playing the victim and dont you dare go around with head hung down saying you are no man without a woman alright sorry ya'll so ends the Tmommy speech for today

needsum12luv Joined Tue 04/07/15 Posts: 472	Mon 04/13/15 07:09 PM Edited by needsum12luv on Mon 04/13/15 07:12 PM
I have no family.........keep smiling I have no one in my life............keep smiling I have no income............keep smiling I have no self esteem...........keep smiling I have no hope................keep smiling I have no life..................keep smiling I'm a lover, a dreamer, used to have a good sense of humor, use to be the life of the party (no fun, when it's a party of one), i'm scared to death, literally Keep smiling..............right Only God has the answers, I have no clue what they are

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Mon 04/13/15 07:13 PM
did I mention smiling once? I said if you are truly feeling hopeless than I hope that you seek some help that is all

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Mon 04/13/15 07:16 PM
I like it fast OR slow.....

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Mon 04/13/15 07:23 PM
I like it fast OR slow..... CARS? ooooh never mind

Amelinng Joined Tue 08/12/14 Posts: 1547	Mon 04/13/15 07:30 PM
I like the build up..... slowly at first! With the pace growing and growing.....steady pace.... then picking up speed..... wait, stop!! I need to stop to smell the roses occasionally.....take a breather, so to speak. OK..... seriously, it is still as I said above! No point rushing it, or it will come fast and go fast.

Amelinng Joined Tue 08/12/14 Posts: 1547	Mon 04/13/15 07:31 PM
I like it fast OR slow..... CARS? ooooh never mind CARS...... definitely the fast ones!