It this going to be expensive?

we can handle everything on a volunteer basis i am almost certain!!

should i be afraid?

I am!

face your fear










lol

But I don't wanna mix the Z stoff and the T stoff. It's dangerous!

Harry I think I am skeered tooo

I don't wanna be a science experiment!

what if we already are one?

I'll be the "X" factor then!

Men are simple, we have five needs.

1. Sex
2. Recreational companionship
3. An attractive spouse
4. Domestic Support
5. Admiration

http://dangcharlie.blogspot.com/2006_08_01_archive.html
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The first is sexual fulfillment . The typical wife doesn't understand her husband's deep need for sex anymore than the typical husband understands his wife's deep need for affection. But these two ingredients can work very closely together in a happy, fulfilled marriage. Sex can come naturally and often, if there is enough affection.
The second need for a man is recreational companionship. He needs her to be his playmate. It is not uncommon for women, when they are single, to join men in pursuing their interests. They find themselve hunting, fishing, playing football, and watching sports and movies they would never have chosen on their own. After marriage wives often try to interest their husbands in activities more to their own liking. If their attempts fail, they may encourage their husbands to continue their recreational activities without them. But this option is very dangerous to a marriage, because men place surprising importance on having their wives as recreational companions. Among the five basic male needs, spending recreational time with his wife is second only to sex for the typical husband.
A husband's third need is an attractive spouse. A man needs a wife who looks good to him. Dr. Harley states that in sexual relationships most men find it nearly impossible to appreciate a woman for her inner qualities alone--there must be more. A man's need for physical attractiveness in a mate is profound.
The fourth need for a man is domestic support. He needs peace and quiet. So deep is a husband's need for domestic support from his wife that he often fantasizes about how she will greet him lovingly and pleasantly at the door, about well-behaved children who likewise act glad to see him and welcome him to the comfort of a well-maintained home. The fantasy continues as his wife urges him to sit down and relax before taking part in a tasty dinner. Later the family goes out for an evening stroll, and he returns to put the children to bed with no hassle or fuss. Then he and his wife relax, talk together, and perhaps watch a little television until they retire at a reasonable hour to love each other. Wives may chuckle at this scenario, but this vision is quite common in the fantasy lives of many men. The male need for his wife to "take care of things"--especially him--is widespread, persistent, and deep.
The fifth need is admiration. He needs her to be proud of him. Wives need to learn how to express the admiration they already feel for their husbands instead of pressuring them to greater achievements. Honest admiration is a great motivator for men. When a woman tells a man she thinks he's wonderful, that inspires him to achieve more. He sees himself capable of handling new responsibilities and perfecting skills far above those of his present level. If any of a spouse's five basic needs go unmet, that person becomes vulnerable to the temptation of an affair. Therefore, the best way to prevent adultery is to meet the needs of your spouse.
"You do not marry someone who you CAN live with, you marry someone who you CANNOT live without."
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I will take everything but that domestic support part cracks me up!!!! Men want peace and quiet......what about us????? huh?????

I agree w/ Gypsy!.....5 pages about what men want.....time to talk about what we want for crying out loud!!

I don't care what anyone saw on the Cleavers ... I am NOT wearing high heels to vacuum!!!!!!

Gypsy41,

I believe that the assumption is that the husband would be the bread winner, while the wife was at home. I can tell you that it sucks to go to work every day to support someone and come home to a filthy house, no dinner, dirty diapers and a significant other who is chatting with other guys online or simply taking a nap. If I were in a relationship with someone who worked, then I think the duties should be split. But if the wife is home all day, she should treat it like a job.

Just a smile then Sherrie?

I would be at a loss if I ever met a man who was the bread winner! The ones I seem to attract sit on the couch while I work, cook, clean, and rear kids....oh and lets not forget about me mowing the yard and hauling the trash.....and everything else! Shiot just cleaning house.....that would be a breeze!

wow.......a man being a breadwinner??? What 1952 tv show did you come out of????? I have no idea how not to work..... though the idea is enticing......