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This is driving me nuts (but then again that's a short drive)
 .....I keep getting the notifications that there is someone out there in JSH land that is interested in meetin me. I don't have a problem going through the profiles to click either the yes, no or maybe to find out....but for the sake of maybe never knowing who this person is (by clicking the NO button), wouldn't it just be easier to email me, for those that are interested, rather then go through page after page.
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you got that right cat
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I hear you there I probably passed up on a few myself and that really makes me mad
 ....He could of been mister right
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that is the one thing that gets me on the mutual match, if there is a guy who is interested just say so, we are not going to bite your head off. It is hard to know, yet I kind of understand if the attraction facot (sp) is not there nor the interest on our part then what is the use. Only it would be nice to know who has the interest, then go from there. Hope this makes sense?????
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Does anyone have a mutual match that has really ever talked to them? What is the whole purpose of this thing? I had ONE to send me an email and say that he wanted to talk to every one that was his match...please answer his email and he would respond back. I did email him back....did he email me back? NOOO so what is the purpose??
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It's like this. We are all on a dating site. There for we are looking for something. Guys try to go out on a line alot and go for it. 9 times out of 10 we get laughed at. That getts old. The good old hand starts to look better then. We have a big ego. We all do and we don't like to hear no. That is a way that this web site trys to get rid of that factor.
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I ain't got that prob. If I wanna meet you i will try to talk to you.
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I have emailed back and forth with a couple of those on my mutual match but that's just it....only a couple times then you never hear back from them.
Yes, I do get in there and start looking for myself and usually met with the same results (or no response back at all). |
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I hear you all about mutual match.I had a mutual match that neither one of us know how that came up.needles to,that won't end up to amount to anything.I think we should all skip mutual match and just email also.
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I have 4 matches and talk to 2 of them. I even talk to them on the phone.
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I just wish they would send me their profile instead of making me go through pages and pages and trying to figure out who it is.
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You can have all my matches,
I don't need them, since I already have a man  The site means well, after all its free. You just have to be patient and weed through the pages. lol
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Oh.I should add.mutual match not all bad,
I am chating with one.We will just have to see. |
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i don't mess with this mutual matches thing
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Intention = Results
I have never used the mutual match thing. Figure if I want to contact someone, I need to do it. Whistles & bells are extras, do your own work. Gives the best results. |
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the other side of the coin is i have matches from a 1000 miles away and at my age i am unwilling to relocate, and lose 22 years with my job, also haven't you talked to someone a few times and decided that they are not for you? and thirdly i chat regularly with several women on this site but have no intensions of anything more than a friendship, nothing more, nothing less
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Nothing wrong with any of that topcat.
Just tell them that upfront. Sound like me. |
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just to talk to I have met a couple of good ones on here, they were not found using mutual match, I think the best mutual match has found was SIBERIA and a couple from the back side of the MOON. that is a long way to travel for a movie and dinner.
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this is so easy
 why wait to hear from a so called "mutual match"  if you are interested in someone, say hello  you may not fall in love, but you can make a new friend... if you don't hear from them, email someone else... the site is free take advantage and contact some people... |
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Yes Cat I would just rather they e-mail me too...
If we say no- We never know if we might be missing someone great. If they are'nt dating material- we still have made a new friend!
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