I'm 19 a female, and always defined myself as straight.

But I've always been attracted to woman. I've never been with a girl, and It isn't until now that im actually trying to see where it would go with one, but with my family being somewhat homophobic, I cant find myself to actually try it. I know im not curious because I've always felt this way, day dreaming about girls and thinking about it. I'm just totally lost on what I should do. What am I? I don' want my family to hate me but I'm tired of hiding how I really feel...

labels are for cans so that you will know what is in them without having to open the can. so if you want to have a label on you, make yourself into a tin can and live on a shelf

that being said, you are a person. you were raised and taught right from wrong so that once you became an adult you could make decisions on your own and be a productive member of society

i guarantee i guarantee that as far as your sexual preference goes. it's your business and whomever or whatever you choose to get sexual gratification with

you can be happy sharing things with your family and keep what you do in your bedroom private. unless your want your family to join in

(bulldog double guarantee - patent pending)

Welcome to mingle.

I understand your concerns. I tell you that only you can define who you are. It is natural as we grow to question who and what we are. That's the Q in LGBTQ. It will continue for the rest of your life.

You are to be commended for reaching out. It is challenging if your family lacks acceptance. My love for my child is unconditional. I believe your family's love is also unconditional.

As I have always told my child "Dare to Think For Yourself".

I encourage you to do the same.

I wish you the best in what you seek.