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A guy and girl get together. In the beginning they talk about "deal breakers". The girl says that one of her deal breakers is use of cocaine. She is against it. He was formerly jailed for it. He agrees. They stay together happily for 7 years. One day she finds out that he has been smoking crack(cocaine). She finds out from a mutual friend, and the boyfriend denies it. Remember, this was a deal breaker. The girlfriend is very upset about this...She then ends up sleeping with another guy. This relationship ends about 2 years later after trying to work through everything. The boyfriend couldn't get over the cheating. It was impossible to go back to the way things were. In your opinion, whose fault was the breakup of the relationship? It seems from your story, that she did not believe his denial of taking cocaine, choosing to believe the mutual friend that he had taken it. Then, she decides, possibly as a result of this, to sleep with another guy, and later tells her partner what she had done. I think she should have believed her partner above the mutual friend, if only giving him the benefit of the doubt, unless he was a habitual liar. She brought the end to the relationship by having a complete lack of faith in her partner in my opinion. |
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In MY opinion, I don't consider what the girl did as cheating. They were broke up when he decided to use cocaine. Technically, she didn't cheat on him then....
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if they were broken up, then how is any of this even an issue?
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if they were broken up, then how is any of this even an issue? Exactly. |
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i doubt it.
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if they were broken up, then how is any of this even an issue? Exactly. A nonissue needs clarification, for why? |
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In MY opinion, I don't consider what the girl did as cheating. They were broke up when he decided to use cocaine. Technically, she didn't cheat on him then.... If that were the case then why were they still together for 2 years after? |
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In MY opinion, I don't consider what the girl did as cheating. They were broke up when he decided to use cocaine. Technically, she didn't cheat on him then.... If that were the case then why were they still together for 2 years after? Because after all that, they decided to give it another shot. But, neither could get over what the other one did. |
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Edited by
d__u__b
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Sun 03/22/15 07:24 PM
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OP seems to have added 2+5 and ended up with rutabaga.
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OP seems to have added 2+5 and ended up with rutabaga. I love rutabagas.... 
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well then, it all worked out in the end.
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I see your logic Basha but she slept with someone else while the relationship was still active. Did she do this out of spite?
Trust was broken between them both...once broken it is very hard to get back. |
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Edited by
Serverousprime
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Sun 03/22/15 07:40 PM
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... They were broke up when he decided to use cocaine. ... This 'fact' is conveniently omitted in the original story which I pointed out has a large gap of continuity. Adding this to the 'evidence' after asking for an evaluation (judgment) denies full credibility to it. Again, for me, framing the story in these terms is a selfish attempt to justify one party's behavior over another. |
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lol |
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