bad Idea ladies....first impressions always stick

i've never actually had or been on a first date before...

this is very true...someone should tell that to one of my friends who just slept with a guy the same night she met him.

Baby, may come out better to post this in relationships. Just a thought...(smile)

Each first date is different. I don't make a rule to kiss or not to kiss on the first date. If things are going well and it progresses to that point, then so be it. However, I would never sleep with someone I just met, no matter who well it was going.

Come out to the other posting sections dear...
We have all kinds of catagories: such as relationships
and sex...

I think that sleeping with someone on the first date is a big time wrong. But a kiss wont hurt anything.

I always kiss on the first date. I need to know what I'm working with.

i think i kiss if fine,,,helps to decide if there is any sexual chemistry...it doesn't need to go any further than there on a first date...

hi klc, I wasn't talking about a peck behind the ear or on the cheeks I mean french kissing and all u know

Guys, this is bull****. Unless you want to get placed into that, "Lets just be friends" category, when you take her out, BE THE ****ING MAN! By that mean, be the most awesome, sociable, magnetic person everywhere you go. It shows confidence in yourself, with with those you are with, ITS ATTRACTIVE to everyone. She HOPES that you will kiss her because it is a PRIVILEGE to be with spending time with you. If both people are attracted to one another, let it be. We're all adults here and know how to make decisions (generally speaking, some people just suck making decisions).

To the guy who has never been on a first date, go out and ask 10 women to join you while you do something interesting (museums, concerts, beach, bar or hookah lounge, clothes shopping...).Statistically speaking, @ least 1 if not more will agree. If you live an attractive lifestyle everything you set your standards to will prevail. You're not a bad looking guy (not hitting on you, sorry bud) and could be smooth if you changed some of your limiting beliefs about yourself.

Peace and Prosperity,
Andrew the Great!!

Then one day you awake with a fear you can't shake,
you're an actor forgetting your lines.
-Strata

Well ok this really came into play tonight. I was meeting this guy for the first time. We met on another internet site, talked there for a bit and on the phone, drifted apart, and then recently started talking again alot. He talked about meeting ASAP, so at the mention of meeting I get all nervous. Well the first time I mentioned us getting together was last night. My friend was celebrating her birthday, but he couldn't make it. Well tonight he drove down to my neck of the woods. There was an attraction, but I'm definitely not one to go for the first move. But you could tell there was a mutual attraction. It was AWESOME!!! I'm still grinning from ear to ear.

Like it was said earlier, you have to know what you are working with. But if there's not any attraction there, I'm not even gonna go for the kiss and will pull away if he tries to.

I think it wouldn't be right to kiss on the first date unless you actually knew the person for a while eg. not a blind date.

I never kiss on the first date, but maybe that's because I'm old fashioned or maybe it's because I'm reserved. In my opinion, kissing on the first date just opens up a whole different ball park and lets the guy know you're easy to score on. Think about it, if at the end of the first date you're kissing him, now he's probably thinking to himself..."I wonder what I can get at the end of the second date." So, a relationship that might have started out as two people getting to know each other goes straight to how far he can get before he strikes out.

I heard if you kiss on the first date you get pregnant...

@ Gypsy!!!

thats agood one Gypsy

considering that i cant even get a girl 2 hold my sweaty hand, kissing on a first date would be a godsend to me

Heck, I dont even make it to a date before I kiss. lol

Think about it, if at the end of the first date you're kissing him, now he's probably thinking to himself..."I wonder what I can get at the end of the second date." So, a relationship that might have started out as two people getting to know each other goes straight to how far he can get before he strikes out.

I totally disagree with the above. Some guys are gentleman and accept the fact that they got just that a kiss.